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Does this count as a close?
Sex  67%  [ 6 ]
Blow job  22%  [ 2 ]
Other genital stimulation  11%  [ 1 ]
Topless fooling around  0%  [ 0 ]
Makeout  0%  [ 0 ]
Number  0%  [ 0 ]
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 05, 2013 5:58 pm 
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Just curious what guys consider a "close".

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 05, 2013 6:30 pm 
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It's a close for her when I finally let her into my world ;P

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 05, 2013 6:36 pm 
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I've never bothered with the term "close", it makes no sense grammatically. You're not "closing" anything. It's a sales term which has been incorrectly attributed to pickup.

Counting closes is vanity. Opening and escalating is sanity.


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PostPosted: Tue Nov 05, 2013 6:50 pm 
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I've never bothered with the term "close", it makes no sense grammatically. You're not "closing" anything. It's a sales term which has been incorrectly attributed to pickup.

Counting closes is vanity. Opening and escalating is sanity.
This is kinda what I hoped this discussion would spawn.

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 05, 2013 9:01 pm 
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Once you banged a certain amount of girls you stop counting and stop caring about notches in the belt.

These days i don't aim to get sex, i aim to get sex on tap. For me a "close" is when i can fuck her anytime i want. The older I get the less i care about one night stands, i just want on tap fuck buddies.

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Once you banged a certain amount of girls you stop counting and stop caring about notches in the belt.

These days i don't aim to get sex, i aim to get sex on tap. For me a "close" is when i can fuck her anytime i want. The older I get the less i care about one night stands, i just want on tap fuck buddies.
Im on board with this... The cost/benefit ratio of effort to pussy isnt really worth it for me in a ONS. I always preferred to keep a rotation of women at various places in the process. The true gems get a few permanent spots.


Also, Why did some of you vote that intercourse but not blow jobs count as a "close"? Sometimes I would much rather get a blow job than sleep with a girl. Its safer, less physical effort, she feels less slutty, doesnt cling as much and I still cum. Fuck even clean up is easier. Trust me, I love women. I love making a woman cum but with a complete stranger sometimes I will pass if I know the blow job is there. I dont know, maybe I just love blow jobs too much. Just curious?

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 07, 2013 5:54 pm 
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Once you banged a certain amount of girls you stop counting and stop caring about notches in the belt.

These days i don't aim to get sex, i aim to get sex on tap. For me a "close" is when i can fuck her anytime i want. The older I get the less i care about one night stands, i just want on tap fuck buddies.
Im on board with this... The cost/benefit ratio of effort to pussy isnt really worth it for me in a ONS. I always preferred to keep a rotation of women at various places in the process. The true gems get a few permanent spots.


Also, Why did some of you vote that intercourse but not blow jobs count as a "close"? Sometimes I would much rather get a blow job than sleep with a girl. Its safer, less physical effort, she feels less slutty, doesnt cling as much and I still cum. Fuck even clean up is easier. Trust me, I love women. I love making a woman cum but with a complete stranger sometimes I will pass if I know the blow job is there. I dont know, maybe I just love blow jobs too much. Just curious?
blow job vs sex is a common debate. I personally much prefer sex in just about every scenario, but a lot of guys prefer BJs.

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