ok so there's this online hottie i hooked up with a couple of times. pretty hard nut to crack at first but now she's the one chasing me. i guess i employed the mystery method but strung out over a few months since she's from another city (3 hr drive). we text each other mainly to avoid things going completely stale but i'm bored and need more. we haven't even touched each other properly. hard to gather any momentum being so far.

my objective is for her to visit me for a weekend, we go all the way and i then move on or decide she's actually worth seeing again. right now i'm in limbo and she's just too hot to let go without closing.

what can i say to her by text ideally to make this happen ?

Somewhere in the middle of a scintillating text convo, ask: "When are you coming up here to see me" Or create or wait for some big event to invite her too.