Theory number 1: how to get out of the friendzone



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PostPosted: Wed Oct 30, 2013 1:06 pm 
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I've been into the game for one year and a half. The reason that compelled me to get involved and committed to this is that all I could do with the girls...well...eh.. was falling both in love with them and within their dreaded friendzone.
The peak of my friendzone frustration was 2 cursed days ago.
I was at a really hot class mate of mine's place to practice mathematics with her. We did that for half a hour then we talked all kind of things: gossips, life-memories, mentalities, we were teasing each-other, basically it was a very pleasant conversation. She was laying on her bed and I was siting next to her. That moment I realized how deprived of personality you are when you are in some girl's friendzone. As she was laying on her bed her t-shirt slid up and revealed her perfect abs. Her perfectly shaped C breasts were absolutely a stunning view because of her thin t-shirt. That moment I realized how much I wanted to make love that being. I was so frustrating that I wanted to shout : "ME WANTS LOVE YOU NOW!". But I couldn't. I was in the friendzone, I've been knowing her for years. We've never had anything that means a sexual relationship. And as the pickup-gurus are all saying. We will never have because I am in this doomed friendzone of her. Everything became unreal frustrating the moment I teased her for having a "big belly". In her tentative to slid her t-shirt back over her belly she revealed one of her breasts. That's it. ENOUGH. When she realized that she started to laugh out loud.

Whatever, I made my point clear. Being in the friendzone of a very attractive woman sucks to the veins. For me it's the most frustrating experience possible. I've spent my last couple of days trying to figure out ways of getting within a friend's panties and/or having a relationship wit her. I googled a bunch of keywords that I hoped would bring light to this problem. But useless.
Eventually I started to recall all sort of memories about other girl's behavior that I was just friends with. I even consulted sever psychology and behaviorism books. But deep within my contemplation I gave birth to two theories.
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To make myself clear: they are just theories. They haven't been tested (YET).

<---------------------Theory number 1---------------->

As I was googleing friendzone - related keywords I ran into something quite interesting. That web page was saying that one trick to get outta the friendzone is to say this to her at the right moment with the right attitude: "I am really glad/happy that we are just friends". I reflected back to the psychology books I've read. Than it felt like God Himself gave me one manly slap. EVRICA! The same game that Mystey uses might work on this matter.
The "I am really happy we're just friends" is actually acting like one of Mystery's disqualifiers. It's supposed to create a confusion within her head. " Why did he say that? But he would want a relationship with me. I can feel it. . . then why would he be glad that we're only friends?... Maybe I'm not good enough for him". Again it is crucial to say it like you MEAN it, your body language must say the same things as your mouth. She might ask why. You can answer: "I have my reasons." Again, with serious tonality and body language. So this is just one line.
It is more than possible that exists more lines that suggest that you don't want anything more than a friendship with her. Using them right will make her feel disqualified for being your lover and wonder weather or not she's the one in the friendzone.
Again, you can use many lines similar to the one I gave to you that would have the same effect. Be creative. I'd like to see some in the comments if possible. Share your Ideas. That's it for the first theory. Be smart. Ryan Black.

P.S. This will work only if she doesn't know for sure that you want a sexual relationship with her.

P.P.S. The second theory will follow up soon.


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I know about the "disappear, get better, come back and present yourself", but that's a long-term project. I am talking here about what to do next, NOW. Thanks for reply :)


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To make myself clear: they are just theories. They haven't been tested (YET).
Uhm, theories should be tested or observed first and then formalized to be proven or dis-proven by many. This is just something along the lines of: "I wished this thing worked this way..." rather than, "I think this thing works this way because of evidence no. 1, no. 2, no. 3..."

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I know about the "disappear, get better, come back and present yourself", but that's a long-term project. I am talking here about what to do next, NOW. Thanks for reply :)
Nothing. If you just got friendzoned, she isn't changing her mind right away, she just made up her mind. Time is the first step.

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To make myself clear: they are just theories. They haven't been tested (YET).
Uhm, theories should be tested or observed first and then formalized to be proven or dis-proven by many. This is just something along the lines of: "I wished this thing worked this way..." rather than, "I think this thing works this way because of evidence no. 1, no. 2, no. 3..."
Indeed, by many, basically, this idea seems that might work. I'll try it myself. I got plenty of female friends anyway. I'll post the results after.


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I know about the "disappear, get better, come back and present yourself", but that's a long-term project. I am talking here about what to do next, NOW. Thanks for reply :)
Nothing. If you just got friendzoned, she isn't changing her mind right away, she just made up her mind. Time is the first step.
What if there actually is a way to...change her mind? I'll try to find one.


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I know about the "disappear, get better, come back and present yourself", but that's a long-term project. I am talking here about what to do next, NOW. Thanks for reply :)
Nothing. If you just got friendzoned, she isn't changing her mind right away, she just made up her mind. Time is the first step.
What if there actually is a way to...change her mind? I'll try to find one.
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I know about the "disappear, get better, come back and present yourself", but that's a long-term project. I am talking here about what to do next, NOW. Thanks for reply :)
Nothing. If you just got friendzoned, she isn't changing her mind right away, she just made up her mind. Time is the first step.
What if there actually is a way to...change her mind? I'll try to find one.
lol! dude get other women, is the best way to get her to change her mind, trust me. You are needy as fuck, and you are in scarcity. Women do not reward guys like you. The poorer get poorer the richer get richer...

I gave you a road map with my link that you can follow, but you also need to stop being needy, and learn how to get good with woman in general, instead of obsessing with one particular girl. Even if you get that girl, would be horrible for you in the long term. Here:

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I don't actually agree with the other posters who are arguing you absolutely have to re-present. Simply displaying the correct behaviors (if they're actually part of you, and not some fake show) should, over time, work. Of course that actually requires you to not be oneitising on her - which may be a difficult proposition for you.

That being said, the best strategy, long term is to fix yourself and reapproach later on. It sounds right now like this girl would tear you to pieces, and she knows it.

The link was great.

I had a situation with a girl trying to friendzone me this year. Until she realized I actually didn't care (and I started flirting with her best friend too, who was hotter). I've never seen a girl turn around so fast. I'd say probably 2-3 weeks from "LJBF" to her trying to date me.


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Not really feeling the OP bro.

"With a serious tonality" Fuck that! You think girls like serious guys?

You want to either be giving her the D, or be the friend that she wants to fuck. Don't talk logic, talk emotions. Have fun! Flirt! Be normal not programmative PUA faggot. Be present in the moment, not in your head. Don't be afraid to fail.


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I feel your pain brother. I've been there in my past as well. I like the advice Skills360 gave you. Keep Gaming, Keep Learning and Keep Positive.

Cheers!


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thank you guys. as for being needy: I live in a 9.000 population town. I know every singe female that lurks around. Untill the next year till I'm going to collage I have no other option . . .


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thank you guys. as for being needy: I live in a 9.000 population town. I know every singe female that lurks around. Untill the next year till I'm going to collage I have no other option . . .
There is always other options bro... always!


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I'm not even going to comment on the theory, I'm going to pick up on something you say much earlier at the start of the post - that it sucks being just friends with hot girls.

Does it?

If you're fucking other hot girls, why does it suck to be friends with others? Yeah you might think "I wouldn't mind a go on that" but that should be a fleeting thought, much the same as when you see a movie star in a film or something - yeah you think she's hot but you do't really think about it too long. You just go out and get somone else instead.


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