Before you try any technique you must value yourself and that means you know you are what women want and that they should be winning you over. After you value yourself you must demand respect. Respect is a reflection of the value others place on you. If a girl is talking to you any kind of way or treating you any kind of way then she does not value you and she does not want you. Also, never let another man disrespect you in front of your woman. You must check disrespect. However in the process of demanding respect you can't look overly affected. Maybe you actually are hurt and deeply offended, but you don't want to look that emotional. That makes you look weak. So you want to check respect but you want to do it in a strong way.

Another thing I notice is a lot of guys acting like they are trying to persuade the girl to do something. You never want to ask the girl to do anything you want to instruct her. Think of it like you're the officer and she's the enlisted man.

That makes no sense.

And I just disrespected you, you need to check it.

Lol.

Ugh. The OP's attitude is the kind of attitude that leads guys into prison for rape. Being alpha and being aggressive sexually is not the same as ordering a woman around. Grow up.

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There is a difference between demanding respect and expecting respect. I can be a whiny little bitch, but nobody will respect me no matter how much I demand it, and the more I demand it and complain when things don't go my way, the more of a bitch I would become.

Or, I can expect respect, because I am as worthy as anyone else. The expectation should be for respect, and respect is a bare minimum as far as human interactions go.

I know a few natural alpha males- no one hardly ever disrespects them...why? Because they give others respect first, they know how to deal with people in a calm manner- they don't seek approval, and they don't judge others hastily, they know when to mind their own business, and when problems come up they always make a decisive solution.


The alpha doesn't demand respect, any bitch can demand respect, the alpha commands respect.

1.) I'll be the one deciding if I feel disrespected and if you do not understand you should state why you don't understand otherwise you're just being childish and I'm too big for that.

2.) You're the leader in the relationship. THat means you tell her what to do occasionally and that means she does not tell you what to do. Do you understand?

3.) You're not going to always be able to command respect, but you can always check disrespect (hold someone accountable) and cut someone out of your life who refuses to respect you. That's why you always demand respect. The way you distingquish expecting respect, commanding respect, and demanding respect is vague; the point you're making is not clear.


You should be so valuable that the worse thing you can do is leave a woman. I've had women cry like a baby simply because I said I'm not taking your shit any more. That's macking.

Your sentence made no sense, neither grammatically nor in substance. Read it again.
You mean when she calls you and tells you to come over for sex because she's horny, but of course you refuse on the grounds that you can never let a woman tell you what to do, right?
How exactly do you hold someone accountable? e.g. Dude comes over to your group of girls, isolates them away from you by cutting you out of the conversation and blocking you out by turning his back to you. How do you hold him accountable?
The point was perfectly clear, it's your point that is unclear. How do you demand respect without looking insecure? Do you shout "I DEMAND THAT YOU RESPECT ME!!!" ? You give no examples in any of your posts.
You sound very proud of the fact you've made women cry. You've got a lot to learn. You know, if you're trying to sell yourself as some sort of Master PUA guru, a bit of humility and respect goes a long way. You have a fundamental misunderstanding of what it means to be an alpha. Your attitude will only attract low value women with low self esteem who will cheat on you just to regain the power balance. Think before you post. You act like you're a dating coach, yet you haven't got a clue. Think before you post.

You sound threatened playa, like the things I say make you doubt yourself.

1.) If you want me to explain something to you, you have to point out what you don't understand or move on. Okay?

2.) Vagina has no value, that has to be your attitude. Pussy is just entertainment; it feels good while you're in it then you're just left with memories. If you don't feel like going you turn it down... then... she'll probably come over haha

3.) Call him out for being rude, but you should never fight over a girl...

4.) By holding people accountable and cutting people out of your life that don't respect you. Work on your reading comprehension.

5.) I am proud that I was so valued, so valued that the worst thing I could do was leave. Listen, they messed up so their tears are on them not me. I didn't make them cry.

The stuff you wrote at the end of your post sounds like bullshit from an English essay. And stop projecting your insecurities son. Its not that the girl has low self-esteem its that she values you so much and that canwork on any woman.

OP, I respect you for 'expecting' your idea to be respected and useful.

See how that works? It's really all you need. Just keep expecting to be respected. Anything more than that does sound insecure.

It's not that you say your words need to be respected, but its obvious you value yourself greatly, which earns you some respect points in my book.

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Your original post reeked of insecurity, now you're acting all cool and unaffected? You're not being congruent.
You meant "Holding people accountable by cutting them out of your life." Those little words can make a difference. Work on your grammar. You still haven't explained the original sentence from your first post. Can someone explain what he meant, because this guy just doesn't listen?
Good, i'm glad to hear you don't take pleasure in a woman's misery. Leave them better than you found them.
I'm following your advice and calling you out for calling me "son". Don't call me son, bwoy!
(recognise sarcasm when you see it)

This is like a gangster mentality... it's stupid... Are you going to throw up the gang signs "P. U. A."?

That person disrespected me... I can't deal with them... Dude who gives a fuck? Honestly that attitude is identical to a gang members... and it creates a "need"... I don't "need" nor "must" I have respect.... Admittedly I enjoy it... but I just don't obsess with another person's critique or belief of me...

Respect is but an interpretation of a person's behavior... I don't need the respect of some stranger or a PUA... I only want the respect of those I care about...

Needing respect is what you demand in a world where your ego is huge... in other words your self-esteem is weak when you need respect... It's a needy behavior and it shows a need for validation through respect...

Hunter is right... you give what you get... you give respect people give it... in my opinion people never "earn respect" they "earn disrespectful SPAM"... Every human deserves a certain amount of respect and I suggest you treat them that way... you breaking up with a girl and her crying is not a big deal dude... lol I know girls who broke up with guys then cried... why does that even need to be brought up?

Peace and Love,

Vic

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1.) Its about boundaries. If someone doesn't respect you they could do anything to you. Steal from you, slander you, cheat on you...Anything could happen.

2.) Respect is a reflection of the value that others place on you. If the people around you are constantly disrespecting you with no consequence then your Reputation suffers. Your social value suffers.

3.) Its about loving yourself. If you have people around you all the time dissing you then sooner or later its going to start to rub off on you. Not being affected is a sign of strength, but allowing someone the chance to try to affect you is stupid.

You're not in control here Fox. I'm not changing my grammar; I wrote what I intended. Also, I'm not explaining any statement until you explain what you don't understand.

Women don't keep calling you trying to get back with you when they were just being emotional. Look its not my job to save women. I'm just here to be me and women can enjoy my presence if they act right.

1) Bitches need to be respecting me y'all, or they gon' get punished

2) G's need to respect me, my reputation is too precious y'all

3) G's been dissin' me and bully me cuz they know I react y'all

Now you're just trolling and it sounds like a bit of racism.

Nice. Pulling the race card by accusing someone of racism is definitely classy and the ultimate way to shut down an argument. Everything I say from now on is now null and void because I've been accused of being racist.

Seems like you're insecure and you've got a chip on your shoulder.

Lets get back to topic, we cant let this devolve into a race thread. The "respect" thing you keep touting is the reason why thugs are murdering each other every day on the streets. If people could just learn to be humble, remain unaffected and let things slide, the world would be a better place. The reason why I wrote that in "gangster/thug" language is because youre promoting thuggish behaviour. G's come in all different colours, bro; Black, white, brown, yellow.

Perhaps you associate with the wrong people... I don't surround myself with these type of people... It's your choice to surround yourself with people... perhaps you should question your choice of people if they don't automatically give you "your respect".
Exactly it's related to your outer obsession.. often referred to as your ego... You don't need respect... you want it... this is a core motivation of someone obsessed with power... and it's also shows low self-esteem. What's funny is when you are beyond valuing other people's opinion of you and needing respect your value with women will grow ten fold.... Social value is merely a perspective one women might find your "respect" shit a turn on while most will find it to be a flaw... Again it's your choice who to surround yourself with...
Loving yourself shouldn't be conditional... you don't need the respect of others you should value yourself unconditionally.... as I said treat others with respect and people will tend to reflect that behavior... Note: I don't give anyone the power that I "need their respect"... I find that to be a mental weakness. As you said not being affect is a sign of strength which means not needing someone's respect in order to love yourself... Your perspective is very convoluted...
How do you know what is happening with fox? How do you know women haven't weeped for him? You're making an assumption that women only weep for you this is kind of to say the least very narcissistic... Women enjoy my presence period... there is no "if"....

I've had women send this or that... bla bla bla... these are ego issues you need us to "respect you"... you need us to believe you're highly valued by women... avoid doing this on the forum it will just attract us like flies on shit to your own personal obvious insecurities.... Men with value and high self-esteem have no need to qualify... they have no need to illustrate their value....

Good luck man... I know what you're trying to do but... requiring respect is a needy validation seeking behavior... some one with stronger inner game doesn't need it... just treat people with respect and they will reflect your behavior.

Peace and Love,

Vic

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