So I'm giving a guy some pointers on SPAM and he tells me he went up to this woman and said "I used to fuck girls like you in prison" and she SLAPPED him.


Originally I thought the entire interaction was CRASH AND BURN but I misunderstood him. He told me she wouldn't leave him alone after saying this.... it makes sense to me. Logically it makes NO SENSE WHAT SO EVER... but it makes sense.

STOP PLAYING PREVENT DEFENSE WITH YOUR CONVERSATIONS!!!!

If anything this story should tell you that it's better to say something totally fucked up and get her pissed at you rather than getting trapped into boring every day "safe" socializing that sparks no attraction what so ever. If you get a woman pissed off at least you ignited her emotions... when you have her emotions going you can always flip that into attraction..

but.... if you bore the fuck out of her she's gonna tune you out and the line goes slack. If you start of boring her you're fighting against momentum and you'll struggle to turn up the conversation.

We all generally socialize with these "social masks" that automatically have us using every day language like "hello good morning" "how's it going?" "the weather is crazy isn't it???" or we go into interview mode and ask her boring questions about her job or school.

Take the social mask off and say what's on your mind. "Just be yourself" is accurate... unless you suck. And if you suck then go out there and improve your inner game so you can be comfortable with "being yourself".


It's A LOT more riskier to go into safe conversation than to say something that will get a negative reaction.

It's A LOT more painful to go home knowing you missed out on an opportunity than it is to get rejected.

Don't blend in as an "average guy" because average guys approach her 10+ times a day.... she's not gonna decide to answer your calls if you don't give her a memorable experience.... become remarkable... become interesting... if you talk to hear about the god damn weather you'll blend in with every other guy.

Rant Over....

Stop playing it "safe".

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You definitely need to strike an emotional chord, but honestly, all girls are different. Some girls are more comfortable with small talk, but other girls absolutely hate it. The thing is, even with small talk and surface-level conversations, you can still make it interesting by the enthusiasm you exude.

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I think a touch of small talk is normal... It does depend on the delivery. Small talk could be interesting if you're simply an interesting person that experienced a lot of cool things. If you have a solid inner game you can simply be transparent and tell her about your passion, your goals and your life.

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explain

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I agree with that. Once the conversation is started it's 80% listening.

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This actually kinda sorta happened to me, but over a much longer period of time.

Long story short, the guy I like has no clue how to talk to me, did creepy things, couldn't talk to me like a normal man to save his life (granted, he makes me flustered, too), and I ended up getting so pissed at him that I yelled at him.

Now, all I wanna do is get into this guy's pants. And he isn't even my normal 'type.'

It's better to stand out than to fade into the background. But doing it this way is kind of a very risky thing.

^ hmmm interesting!

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