I perfer to game younger girls (18 - 20) as im 21 myself...

I was coaching an AFC friend of mine when he got blown out by the targets friend dragging her away early in the set. I wasnt in ear shot to hear what was said, i was just curious as to how you guys would deal with it in a moderatly loud nightclub environment.

Personally i said that i would have said "Excuse me, im trying to have a conversation with her" but then i realised thats not good game as it would instantly put me in the bad books with her friends?

In a situation like that, you've already lost. I'd say let her go and move on.

The exception to this, is when the girl is really into you and the friend doesn't outright drag her away, so you can say something to her without chasing after and shouting to get her attention. If the girl just pulls her friend a couple steps away, I just walk up and place a hand on her shoulder lightly and say, "You're very rude you know? Me and your friend were in the middle of a conversation, why don't you join us instead of ruining our fun?"

By saying that, you're negging her and now she feels self conscious and wants to make that feeling go away, you've given her a way to make that happen by joking with her and inviting her into your conversation. Make sure when you say this that you are smiling and laughing.

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