Kind of a field report and question:
I was out a few nights ago and was chatting with this girl, seemed interested and was indicating ioi's: giggling and playing with her hair, but every so often she would glance at her boyfriend and turn towards him. When my friends distracted me she moved back to him.
How would you deal with this situation, was I just not keeping her attention enough in the first place?

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Well, that is her boyfriend afterall.

Did you think you were going to steal a girl from her boyfriend right in front of him? I don't suspect such a thing would ever happen.

i saw some PU video a while back that had a cam on a PUA in a club as he went around showing how to steal girls from under the boyfs nose, emasculate them in front of the girl in a polite way, disarm them in case of conflict etc
the studio audience watching this all whooped and cheered and clapped, but they didnt show anything more than a PUA pinching some guy's girl for a few mins or a quick dance. it was edited to leave what happened next to your imagination.
however in my head all i saw were secure boyfs allowing some smiley douche a few mins to interact with their girls, and nothing became of it. the PUAs thought they were the MAN though. lots of ego massaging and back slapping basically

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Dude, those videos are for marketing purposes and most are probably fake. The whole you can get girls who have bfs just like regular girls is a LOAD OF SHIT that is spread by PUAs trying to sell products because stealing a girl from her boyfriend is a really common thing men want. Yes, you can get girls who have bfs but it is generally MUCH harder than getting girls who are single.

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yeah thats pretty much what i said

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manage the logistical as soon as you can

find out who's she's with, what is the closest or best place to offer her to leave to, figure what the relationship is between the people she's with, if she has work or anything the next day that would prevent her from leaving with you

when you are aware of the hurdles you can properly attempt to jump over them, if she has a boyfriend and he's right there, you are likely not going to be getting anywhere, if you want to try to sleep with her when she's unavailable just try to get her number and when it comes up let her know you are not looking to date her or anything and you will help her keep it a secret

the more people she is with, likely the harder it will be to get her leave due to them trying to cock block or her feeling pressured to not look like an easy girl that leaves with strangers

anything else that presents a problem should be considered and you should develop a solution the get around that problem, if the logistics to not permit then an easy solution is to change the logistics for another date and location at a later time, then move on and search for a girl who has a better logistical situation