Everyone knows the rules of the game. Everyone knows what you should and should not do, but can you apply them. Can you apply the rules when you are under stress.

You should always have self-control, but if you like someone...if you have a passion for someone...if you have a crush on someone or you are in love with someone how are you going to control yourself? How are you going to deal with it?

The thing is this whenever you do get invested in one person there's is a great chance to sabotage yourself by doing things emotionally instead of rationally. Why are guys so nice and try so hard to the point that it turns girls off? Emotions. You can't control your emotions. I hate to harp on this, but this is a Pillar of the game. You got to control your emotions.

If you can't control your emotions you will always attract people you don't like because you are cool around them and you will push away, sabotage yourself, around the people you do like because you get EMO.