there is this girl that turned me down on wednesday, and changed her facebook status to this the same day.
"_____is really sry valentine! can't wait to spend time with him next week!"

i have no reason to believe this is not me, should i ask her if thats me?
i really wanna know lol shes my oneitis and i havent made any oneitis mistakes with her yet, but i keep consulting here for help.

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I think you can answer that question yourself. If you can't, then you need to figure out where your insecurities are coming from, and deal with it.

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Except to say it isn't worth a dime

true, thanks bro, lol it is me then im good. but im freezing out nonetheless unless she calls but ill let it ring then call her back with a DHV.

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This is HER fuckin' shit test!!!

Of course she knows you're gonna look at her facebook profile and think to yourself, "What the fuck does she mean? Is she talking about me?"

If you ask her - BAM you've FAILED her shit test.

I presume this is the same girl who turned you down on the 13th Feb.

>but im freezing out nonetheless unless she calls but ill let it ring then call her back with a DHV.

Yeah that's the way to go.

Even though you probably understand the rules of *The Game* inside out by now, years of social conditioning can still make you unsure.

I'm sure we've all thought to ourselves at some point:-

"So she appears to be into me, but she let me down. This is too good an opportunity to waste. Maybe if I just show her how much she means to me, she'll understand? I can't just ignore her. I'll look back in x amount of years and think - I wasted an opportunity."

Hopefully, you should know why the above is NOT the way to go.

Keep frosty, thread that needle. Wait for her to call you. I know it's hard but it is WHAT YOU MUST DO. And when she does (and she will) you will be able to flip those attraction switches to greater effect.

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