Sexual Techniques for Guaranteed Orgasm by David Shade

Hi. My name’s David Shade. I’ve been a friend of Cliff’s for 15 years. I also spoke at both of his Cliffslist Conventions.
I am not a PUA. My speciality is what you do after you get the girl. Specifically being a masterful lover. I call it “Service after the sale”. lol. Sure, I enjoy doing pick up, but my fascination has always been pushing the limits of female sexual response.
I’ve been contributing to the online community since the 90′s about how to give women wild screaming orgasms. In 2001, I released my first book that teaches men how to give women hour long instant orgasms on command. Since then I’ve written many books that cover all levels of experience to bring a guy from beginner to master.

Cliff asked me to answer some questions that his readers have asked. I’ll start with the one that are answered with simple advice and then move into the ones that require more advanced advice.
Question: “My girlfriend can easily come when I go down on her or when she masturbates but she can never come in sex even if I go at it a long time and I’m fairly big.”
Answer: The majority of women can easily have clitoral orgasms through masturbation or oral sex, but only a minority of women have vaginal orgasms in intercourse.
Some women even think they’re not “one of the lucky ones”, or worse, that women can’t have vaginal orgasms. The truth is that all women were born with a vagina and a brain, and thus are all perfectly equipped to have vaginal orgasms. And if anyone tries to tell you that vaginal orgasms are actually just clitoral orgasms, they’re misinformed.
Intercourse hasn’t worked to give her a vaginal orgasm, and it’s obviously not going to. So you have to do something different. I’ve given women their first vaginal orgasm using the deep spot. Put your middle finger inside her as deep as you can, with your palm up, and curl your finger against the front of her vagina very deep. The anatomical term for the location is the anterior fornix of the vagina. Most women find this spot to be extremely responsive. See my training video at TheDeepSpot.com.
It is interesting to note that your middle finger is a lot smaller than you’re “tool” but can give her her first vaginal orgasm. The fact is that size doesn’t matter when it comes to women having vaginal orgasms or not.
What sometimes happens when using the deep spot is she will tell you to stop because she has to pee. That is actually good news. That means she’s about to have her first vaginal orgasm. It feels like she has to pee, but it’s actually female ejaculate building up in her paraurethral Skene glands, which are anatomically homologous to the male prostate. Let her go pee. She won’t pee very much. When she returns, continue. But if she complains again, simply tell her to shut the fuck up and to feel the pleasure. The wrong thing to do would be to try to have logical discourse with her in bed about female ejaculation.
And never ever tell her that you’re trying to give her a vaginal orgasm. That’ll only give her performance anxiety. If she asks what you’re doing, just tell her you’re simply finding what feels good for her. If she asks again, simply tell her to shut the fuck up and to feel the pleasure.
Did I mention that you have to be dominant? You do, or you have no chance. Dominance on your part and compliance on her part are absolutely required to make the sex exciting and fulfilling for her. Period. All women are submissive. I don’t care if a woman you have been with has been dominant. She only did that because none of the men she’s been with were dominant, and someone has to be, so she did it. But she doesn’t want to. That does not create responsiveness! She may put up some resistance to you taking the lead, but deep down inside she wants you to take the lead.
Question: “My girlfriend can’t experience orgasm with any men. She can reach it by herself, but when I am with her she gets self conscious and it seems like her mind stands in her way. Is there any way to break this mental block and make her experience orgasmic pleasure? I have tried pretty much everything”
Answer: I had a similar question recently from one of my newsletter readers. I wrote him back and asked him if his girlfriend had low self esteem. He said, “Yes. She thinks she’s fat and ugly, but she’s beautiful and slim.” That is most definitely low self esteem. (Beauty does NOT mean high self esteem!)
I asked him what her relationship with her father was like. He said, “Her mother died when she was very young and her father gave her to her aunt. She hasn’t seen him since.” That explains why she’s got low self esteem. Women learn to be women from their mothers, and they develop their self esteem from their experiences with their father. She was rejected by her father, which explains her extremely low self esteem.
There is nothing you can do to overcome that. Nothing. And don’t think you can fix her. You can’t. Only she can seek the help of a professional. Chances are she won’t.
Get a new girl. Find one that had a close relationship with her father while growing up. She was taught to believe in herself and to have an emotionally healthy relationship with men. And she is almost certainly very secure in her sexuality.
I get a lot of hate mail from that kind of discussion. But I say what I see. I get field reports regularly from my tens of thousands of clients world-wide, and this is a consistent phenomena among women. With the low self esteem women there is always trouble, while with the high self esteem daddy’s girls everything works!
Question: “I’d like to get more freaky with my girlfriend, but she says she doesn’t have any fantasies.”
Answer: She’s lying. Why do we know this? Because she’s female. All women have fantasies.
I suspect you’re not rocking her world. When you do rock her world, you will find that the fantasies will flow freely. When a woman’s sexuality has been awakened, she will ask for even more and will start to share her deep-down hidden fantasies.
Fact: Women are never truly satiated. The better the sex, the more they have to have it. They are only limited by their physical and emotional stamina.
Fact: Women are far more sexual than men. And their sexuality is far more deep and complex than men’s. By far.
And if you want your girlfriend to get more freaky, don’t wait for her to offer a fantasy. Instead, you must lead! You must lead her, a baby step at a time, into more and more freaky behavior. Make sure every step is successful before moving to the next. Don’t wait for her to get freaky. It won’t happen. You have to lead her there.
Question: “I try to do dirty talk during sex, but my girlfriend tells me to be quiet or she can’t come.”
Answer: That’s because she’s retreating into her own secret fantasy that she uses to give herself an orgasm, and you’re just distracting her. She’s not thinking about you. That makes you her human vibrator.
You have got to change things immediately. You have got to have her thinking about you and what you two are doing together. If not, the sex will get worse and worse until it’s gone.
You immediately must engage her mind. You must link the sensations she is feeling with you. And you do that with your voice. Your most important tool in the bedroom is not your “tool”, it’s your voice. Specifically dirty talk. And it’s very powerful.
And dirty talk doesn’t have to be “dirty”. It can be as simple as narrating what’s going on, or telling her what to do and what to feel, or asking her questions that get a “yes” answer.
And whatever you do, do NOT try to get her to talk dirty to you. That would be the wrong thing to do. Why? Because the one who’s dirty talking is the one who’s driving. And you better be driving!
For a complete detailed course on dirty talk, see my program “Give Women Wild Screaming Orgasms”.
Question: “How can I get my girl to initiate sex more often?”
Answer: Why are you letting her initiate sex at all? If she initiates sex, and then you oblige her with sex, then that means SHE’s driving, NOT you! That makes you the submissive.
You must lead. Always. She must be compliant to you. Always. (We are only talking about the sexual context here.)
Fact: When you truly rock her world, she will always be receptive to your initiation. Period.
My top clients literally tell their women, “You may kiss me at any time. In fact it is welcome. You may touch me at any time, except in the underwear area. Never are you to touch me there unless I tell you to. But I will touch you anywhere I desire. Never are you to initiate sex, but at any time I shall take you and have you.” And their women melt at those words.
Did I mention that female sexuality is entirely mental? Believe it. You won’t be powerful until you do. But when you truly capture and lead the mental aspects of her sexuality, you own her.
Do I sound extreme? I seek truth in reality. And this’s what was found.
I help guys in very extreme cases. Guys who’ve been married for 30 years. Their wife never had a vaginal orgasm, only clitoral. The husband would go down on the wife to give her a clitoral orgasm and then they’d proceed to intercourse and he’d orgasm inside her. That makes sex all about him, not about her.
Basically what’s going on is he first gifts her with a clitoral orgasm so that she will then grant him entry so that he may masturbate inside her vagina. After decades of that, the woman either stops having sex or leaves.
Fact: If you’re not giving your woman vaginal orgasms in intercourse, you have nothing. Absolutely nothing.
In long term marriages there is a lot at stake. Sex is serious business. It takes serious measures. I’ve saved a lot of marriages. The testimonials are on my website and you can talk to these men in my online forum.
Question: “How long should I last for her?”
Answer: Who’s driving here? You or her? YOU are supposed to tell HER how quickly she is to come for YOU!
I can teach you how to give your woman an instant orgasm on command in my program “Erotic Hypnosis”. But if you’re afraid of hypnosis, there’s another way, it just takes a bit longer…
I’m going to tell you about my “secret weapon”. This will teach her to orgasm very quickly on your command. This also cures women who haven’t yet had a vaginal orgasms. Works every time!
I call it “think off”. What you do is you get her on the phone and start phone sex. But with a twist. You tell her not to touch herself. Very important. Then you describe in sensory rich detail exactly what you would do if you were there. She must imagine it. She must make it real in her mind.
An amazing thing will begin to happen. She will actually start to feel the sensations. She will feel everything you describe. And interestingly, it will be even more powerful than anything she’s ever felt.
And then something truly amazing will happen. She will have an orgasm. Once that happens, you truly own her mental aspects of sexuality.
You then simply strengthen that and make her orgasm quicker each time. Then she is fully responsive to your voice. In fact, she will then be fully responsive to your presence. Then she will be fully responsive in intercourse.
Problem solved! To hear actual phone recordings of me doing this to women, including hearing the women orgasm, see my program “Give Women Hot Phone”.
Question: “How can I get my girlfriend to swallow? She says she hates the taste and it makes her gag.”
Answer: I’ve heard all sorts of advice on this one, but there’s only one way, and it always works – You must rock her world! When a woman’s sexuality has truly and completely been awakened, she will do anything for you. Anything. In fact, she will ask for it and she will love it and she will love the taste.
Simple. That’s all you have to do to get anything. Even threesomes. When you awaken her sexuality, she will suggest you two pick up a girl and have a threesome. You can be certain that your girl is bisexual. Why do we know this? Because she is female.
Now some guys say, “But my woman is different.” They know all the things about their woman that makes her unique. And thus they think the rules don’t apply to her.
In my work, I am fortunate to have an army of clients all over the world applying the teachings and reporting their successes. The results of each has consistently shown that everywhere in the world, girls respond the same. For all the girls, their thoughts are highly sexual, they respond to dominance and dirty talk, and they have very naughty fantasies. When their sexuality has truly been awakened, they will do anything.
Don’t use “She’s different” as an excuse for not getting everything to work. All the rules apply to her just like they do to all the other girls. Girls are girls. Period. God bless girls.

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How To Stop Being Angry At Women by Scot Mckay

In response to several requests, today we’re going to cover a somewhat unpleasant issue but an absolutely critical one to recover from if it affects you. As the title itself suggests, that’s the whole problem of being really angry with or even flat-out bitter towards a woman, or with women in general.

Now, from the outset I’m going to slap the expected disclaimer on this discussion: I’m no therapist, and I’m not going to pretend to be. What follows is not going to be even close to a substitute for dedicated, purpose-oriented professional help of that type. As such, if you’ve got very deep-seated anger issues, I’m going to encourage you to seek out the proper expert to help you work through that.

Nevertheless, as a guy who is immersed in dating and relationships on a daily basis, I do have some relevant observations that you’re going to likely find both refreshing and helpful.

The first is this. It’s OKAY to get mad at a woman here and there. You’re not some sort of “bad guy” if you have a normal, rational angry response to something legitimately crummy that’s been done to you by a woman. I mean, if she lies to you, cheats on you, steals your car or generally pisses you off…fine. Feel the emotion and accept it.
Remember always, we’re all human here whether we’re men or women. Women aren’t infallible “goddesses” to be placed on a pedestal, all the blame being on our shoulders as men regardless of who did what to whom. Nope…the standards of conduct hold for both genders, as does the yardstick for reasonable emotional response.

So then, anger in what I’ll call “the heat of the moment” isn’t up for grabs here. Rather, the problems start arising when we let that anger simmer over time and start to consume us. There may be one woman who really irked you to your core, and you just can’t get over it. This is, of course, very common when we’ve had a long-term relationship go south on us. What our ex did to us could have been as simple as breaking up via text rather than in person or as egregious as cheating on us with multiple people or emptying our bank account.

No matter what, it’s a mistake to let ourselves get so angry that our emotions grab the controls and take over. Obviously, when that happens we become a less attractive person to be around, and others—especially women—want no part of us or our negative energy.
One of two insidious ways that anger starts to adversely affect our level of success with women is when we begin to transfer the blame for what’s been done to us by one woman to ALL women. That tends to occur because we fixate on the wrong that’s been done to us SO much that we’ve literally anchored that bad event to femaleness in general. It’s as if it’s all we can think about.

The second tragic way that anger negatively affects our ability to attract women is when we consider a relationship with a new woman and our imaginations immediately start to run away with the fear that she’ll do the same bad things to us all over again.

As you can easily imagine, in both of those cases we start coming off as a real bummer—even to perfectly decent women who haven’t done anything to deserve being looked at with a jaundiced eye, and perhaps likely never will.
Now clearly, if we’ve seen a recurring pattern of negative, anger-inducing events in our interactions with women over time, it’s all the more likely that we’ll develop a generalized anger towards the entire female gender.
What a mess, right? Yet, most men I’ve talked to who’ve gotten good and angry at women really do have a strong desire to get over it.

They’d rather NOT be so pissed off. They really WANT to be able to expect the best from women and truly enjoy their company again—without bitterness and without fear.

Here are my thoughts on how you just might be able to do exactly that.
First, I want to give you an exercise to try out that’s SO simple you may be left shaking your head and laughing when it’s all over. But I have to tell you, this silly little mindshift is EXACTLY what helped me start the process of “turning the corner” after my own extremely rough divorce eleven years ago.

Simply look around you at the relationships OTHER people have, and make an honest evaluation of the women in those relationships relative to your anger, fears and frustrations.
What you’ll likely discover is that you’ve got PLENTY of real-world examples around you of women who DON’T do egregious things to piss their significant other off.

In my case, my “stinking thinking” centered around a belief that all women were crazy. One day I woke up and realized that my own sister, mother and even sister-in-law were perfectly level-headed and sane. Similarly, a number of my co-workers and friends’ wives were also perfectly reasonable, sound-minded women.

Only by considering what went on outside of the microcosm of my own little dark world was I able to “see the light”. And what do you know? All women, generally speaking, WEREN’T stark raving nuts after all. That realization lessened my anger some, and in turn empowered me with the confidence to both BELIEVE and FULLY EXPECT that the women I’d meet going forward would be perfectly sane, rational and level-headed; whereas previously I’d assumed I’d only meet crazy chicks.

Little did I realize how powerful my mindset and the LEADERSHIP associated with it really were. I immediately started meeting and dating decidedly non-crazy women. Then, as if by magic, my anger and bitterness disappeared entirely.
Indeed, my expectations had influenced how I was finding and selecting women—and weirdly, which ones found me compatible with them. As twisted as it sounds, even the women who negatively affect us can sense when we’re the kind of guy who’ll expect their shenanigans and therefore likely put up with them…even if begrudgingly.
As such, you can likewise expect that once you give yourself permission to let go of anger, bitterness and frustration your actual, real-world fortunes will change.

In case you’re wondering if I’m implying that your circumstances with women are at least equally as much due to your own actions and decision-making as theirs, you’re correct. That’s EXACTLY what I’m saying.
And that’s actually GOOD news. You’re NOT their victim. You have very real POWER to change your circumstances as a masculine leader.

That brings us to the real kicker. Did you know that the MORE you let the women in your past swirl you into a vortex of anger, the more you’re granting them SUPERPOWERS over your life?

You’ve got it: All the women who’ve caused you pain are STILL being given omnipotent authority to KEEP making you miserable for the foreseeable future—so long as YOU’RE willing to grant that power to them.
If it’s just ONE woman who has so negatively affected your outlook and your quality of life, sit back for a minute and consider the super-human dominance over YOUR life that you’re continuing to freely give that ONE mere mortal of a person.

No matter how you slice it, what I’m telling you here is 100% true. As I alluded to earlier, most of us who are angry and bitter towards women don’t exactly LIKE it that way, and we wish things were different.
So yes…as long as what either one or a certain few women has done to negatively influence both your attitude AND your level of success with women is allowed to reign supreme, that’s the amount of time they’re going to literally OWN you.
Isn’t it time to stop being an emotional slave to the women in your past like that?
Did I just give you exactly what you need to redirect your anger and frustration in a more appropriate direction?
When you start getting angry at your willingness to stay angry and bitter on account of women who are LONG SINCE out of your life, that’s precisely when you’ll begin to take your power back and start giving new, fresh and exciting women in your life the benefit of the doubt.

Very soon after that you’ll discover something magical. That “benefit of the doubt” transforms into the triumphant return of actual LIKE towards women, eventually giving way to genuine ENJOYMENT of all that’s female…even in their less-than-shining moments.
Give it a shot, gentlemen. Take back your power, and free yourself to lead accordingly. Give new women you meet a fair chance to respond to the NEW regime that’s ruling inside your head.
Then, prepare to be shocked when sweeping, positive changes occur much sooner than you expect.
Now listen, I fully, honestly believe that what I’ve just shared with you is a powerful solution to basic, lingering anger and bitterness toward women.

Nevertheless, here’s one final point that I trust you’ll take seriously. If you’ve actually allowed your anger towards women to morph into all-out, utter hatred of them to the point where you’re even reading this and getting mad at ME for what seems like such a glib, easy-going fix, then it’s time to seek professional help with that.
I personally believe you’ve read this far because you genuinely want a great woman in your life despite what you may be feeling right now. Rest assured that misogyny will indeed get you NOWHERE with women, as it’s fundamentally destructive to the basic attraction process.
Consider this. If you put the shoe on the other foot, you can easily picture a woman who’s become jaded by men. Perhaps she’s physically beautiful, but has grown so angry and bitter that she thinks “all men are jerks”, that we’re all “dogs” and that we all “only want one thing”.
Well, since she looks good, there ARE plenty of men who will gladly use her sexually. But all the men of character who actually respect and enjoy women will want NOTHING to do with her over the longer term since she hates men. Predictably, her world view soon becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.

But is that really the fault of the high quality men who deserve what they want? Of course it isn’t. Her mindset has custom-crafted her reality to match her expectations, and rightly so.

These are chilling thoughts, aren’t they? I realize that this conversation hasn’t been an easy one, but if it changes your life then I’m glad to have shared this information with you.

As always, be sure to drop me a note at scot@deservewhatyouwant.com if you think there’s more going on in your own situation than one simple article like this can cover. If it’s in my realm of expertise to help get you out of a jam, then you can bet I’m at your service.
Be Good,
Scot McKay

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To Be Able To Close A Woman…You Must First Know How To Open Her – David Wygant

Let’s say you’re in a restaurant – a sushi bar – and there’s two women sitting next to you there. What most guys will do in this situation is spend the whole night trying to figure out what to say and how to get into a conversation. Once they do get into a conversation with her, they smother her. You know, they won’t make it casual and fun. The key to opening a woman is you need to understand that you need to give a woman the best 15 to 45 seconds of you and then walk away.

So let’s break down this scene even more. So tonight we’re sitting in this sushi bar next to these two women, and they were sitting there enjoying themselves and having a good time. So we opened them – casual conversation, talked about food, talked about what they were ordering. 30 seconds and that was it. But if you do that with energy, if you do that with conviction, if you do that with confidence, like “Hey that looks good!” or “Can I have a bite of that?” or “What are you getting?” Or when the waiter comes over you say “Hey, what is that? What is she having?” But you do it with a very confident tone in your voice, not whiny. So you talk to her, then you ignore her. You basically turn around and continue talking to your friend. By doing that you’re building trust. You’re building confidence in yourself. Because if you can do it good for 30 seconds now, you can do it good for 60 seconds the next time. Not only that – and this is a really key thing – is the second and third time you talk to them, they become a familiar face. So all of a sudden they’re not a stranger anymore.

They become very familiar and things become very playful. Women like things to be playful. That’s what happened tonight. When we got our order, the women asked us “What is that?” We said “It’s yellowtail.” They said “Wowk, that looks good.” So at this point you can offer them a bite of your yellowtail. So by investing only 75 cents for an extra piece of yellow tail for them, you get to talk about food a little bit more, and you’re keeping it very playful and very fun. Maybe you find out a little more about them, how many times they’ve been to the restaurant, or whatever it might be to start the conversation. What happens next – and it’s not important what you say but HOW you say it – is that things stay very playful. They will get something to eat next, and it becomes like a game.

Every time they have a new plate of food, you say to them “What are you eating now? What is that?” Now it’s the third time you’re talking to them. And what happens psychologically, is that when you talk to a woman three times over the course of dinner at a sushi bar for instance, is that they become more familiar so you become less nervous. You start seeing them as someone much less intimidating and you stop being intimidated by them. You start being able to communicate better with them, because you built up your communication with them in little bursts and each conversation got longer and longer and what you talk about gets more and more interesting every time you do it. Now you stop talking about food and find out something like that they’re celebrating a birthday. Now you stop talking to them again. So the fourth time we talked to them, that’s when stuff really heated up. We started talking about image, what we did for a living, what they did for a living, where she’s from, about her relationships, about her business. And this is where things start getting deeper. And this is where all the pertinent parts of a conversation come in that I always talk about – the power of he talk/she talk, the power of asking the right personal questions, how to get deep inside a woman. But this is really a simple kind of approach, and you haven’t done what most guys do when they go in.

What most guys do is spend two hours trying to figure out what to say, instead of going … Everytime you use small doses you’re able to get more comfortable every time. The more comfortable you are, the more comfortable she will be because it becomes a very energetic thing. Because if you go in all nervous, she’s going to be all nervous. If you go in comfortable, she’s going to get comfortable. That’s why I always suggest, especially in a bar/restaurant or in a coffee shop where they’re sitting down, to go in in small doses b/c then you’re able to really shine. Like tonight, with my client, by the fourth or fifth conversation, he was so comfortable that I was sitting there talking on my blackberry while he was comfortably talking to them about his son. And they really enjoyed it to. They even mentioned how we were different from every other guy because we listened to them.

The whole point being that you have to be the opposite of every other guy. So in order to close a woman, you need to close her in very small doses. So then all of a sudden, the fourth or fifth time you talk to her in a bar or in a restaurant or in a coffee shop, what happens next is that you will easily be able to say to her “Wow I really enjoyed talking to you.” She’ll say “I really enjoyed to talking to you. Let’s get togather and talk about x, y and z again.” So you’re breeding familiarity, you’re breeding comfort, and you’re doing it differently. What you have to understand about women is that they are into any kind of foreplay – be it emotional foreplay, mental foreplay or physical foreplay. What most guys do is they smother.

The minute they go over to talk to a woman, they smother her. Every time they smother a woman, that woman becomes less and less interested. And also being able to walk away – the power of walking away which I discuss in one of the blogs – when you’re able to do this a woman wonders about you more than anything else. “Who is that guy? Why did he walk away? No guy walks away from me. Most guys smother me.” So you see the difference, and also you get more comfortable. I tell every single guy that in order to close a woman, you need to do it in stages – 15 seconds, 30 seconds, 45 seconds . . . then you’re into a full-blown conversation. This happened last night when we were in the supermarket. Same exact thing.

We met a woman, she was coming at me with a cart. I looked at her and said something very funny: “Don’t you go hitting me with that cart.” I was teasing and being playful. She laughed. So then I walked away from her. Most guys after saying that to her would have gone in and performed some kind of a routine, and would’ve smothered her. I walked away, because when you walk away they will chase you. Then all of a sudden what happens next, is we’re walking around, we’re in the vegetable dep’t, we see her coming toward us.

She’s hesitating, she’s looking around, I pick up her body clues. Her body signs are that she’s lingering – she’s not buying anything, she doesn’t have a plastic bag in her hand, she’s not even looking at anything – she’s lingering. She’s just staring at the mushrooms, but she’s not going to buy the mushrooms. So what do I do? I make an observation. I look at her lingering and I say “Are you going to be cooking those mushrooms tonight?” She starts smilikng and she sys “No! I don’t know what I want. I’m probably just going to get the plastic container of food.” I said “I always get the plastic container of food.” And then we started talking about cooking and how I bought the george foreman grill and about how she’s had the george foreman grill. That led to me hearing her accent, and I asked her where she was from. She said Memphis, and I happened to be going to Memphis. So the next thing you know we started talking about Memphis. What happened next is I closed her. I told her “ Wow, I’d like to learn more about Memphis. I’d like to you to come and talk to some of the guys (she was a fashion consultant).” But you see, it happens in stages. The first time is just laying the bait, the second time they’ll come back and chase.
If you give them 15 seconds of being very confident, 30 seconds of being very confident, you are going to be diff’t than 99.9% of the guys who are out there. Every other guy smothers, and smothers, and smothers. You’re being confident. You’re being relaxed. You’re being calm. My client saw what happened every time when we did this: the women come chasing back. Most guys don’t understand this. Then closing them is very simple. They’re comfortable around you. They’ve had two or three sessions of talking to you. And you can do this anywhere. In a bookstore, you can walk by a woman and say “That’s one of my favorite books of all time. You are going to LOVE that book.” Then you walk away. The next time you see her two minutes later and she’s in another aisle of the book store and that book isn’t in her hand, what you do is become playful with her and say “Where is the book I recommended to you? You’re not going to take my recommendation?” You’re being playful, and she’ll get defensive and defend herself. Things will become more playful. You start talking, figuring out what book she’s reading.
Give her a good 30 seconds, 45 seconds. You can ask her out anytime. How do you close a woman? You close a woman by bringing her back to the moment you talked to her. With the woman in the supermarket, you could say something like “You’ve got to give me your number so you can tell me how your dinner turned out.” Or with the bookstore, if she buys a book you’ve talked to her about, you can say “You’ve got to call me tomorrow to tell me how that book was.” You can meet a woman in Blockbuster. How do you open a woman in Blockbuster? You walk over and see a woman staring at a movie you’ve seen, “The Departed.” You walk over and say to her “That’s one of my favorite movies ever. Have you seen it yet?” She says “No.” You tell her a little about the movie, then you walk away. You keep an eye on her. At all times you always keep an eye on where she is so you can go back in again.

When you go back in, if you look and she doesn’t have “The Departed” in her hand, you challenge her and say “Where’s The Departed? You aren’t seeing it?” She says “No.” You say, “C’mon we’re going to go over and get it.” You take her on a journey – take her by the hand, take her back, put the departed in her hand and say “You need to watch this. If you don’t like it, I’ll buy you another movie the next time.” She’ll say “OK.” Then how do you close her? You say “Give me your number. I’m going to call you tomorrow and make sure you liked that movie. If you didn’t like that movie, we’ll meet in Blockbuster tomorrow night and I’ll buy you a whole new movie.” Those are some ways to open and close women – you do it in stages. It’s a two stage process every time so you get more comfortable. At night you can make it a three or four stage process. At a coffee shop during the day, you can have a few small conversations before jumping into a big one. It’s a great way to build up your confidence. It’s a great way to make them feel comfortable.

When you feel comfortable, she feels comfortable, and vice versa. So the best way to open a woman is to do it in stages. Gather as much information as you can, and when you close her do it with something you’ve been talking about. That way she looks forward to continuing the conversation, because women look forward to continuing a great conversation. That is what women are all about. You’ve got to learn how to speak their language. If you learn how to speak their language, they’re going to be attracted to you every single time.

Thanks,
David

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