k, well i knew she was kinda into this other guy as well as me. she had this minor fling going on with him for a whle and it never went anywhere.

and yesterday he flaked out on her and she got really pissed off. i was texting her asking her how many valentines shes got, and she said she did have one but told me how much she hates him and how hes a dick and can eat shit etc etc. he said he was feeling kinda sick and wanted to go home to sleep instead of hanging out with her. n how he didnt even apologize like it meant nothing in her own words.

i tried to sublimially destroy him but it was hard for me to think of the best thing to say. i was pretending like i was standing up for him but i wuld slip in stuff like "he has other things on his mind" "aww come on he cant be that bad" but she didnt agree with me at all.

in the past she showed me all obvious ioi's and we were supposed to hangout this weekend. and i need to call her tonight to make the plans.

but if she brings him up again, what is the best way to destroy him? ive never done it so im hoping for some GOOD advice here. shouldi be upfront and rip on him a little? or should i do something more subliminal?

plz guys this is my chance, she sounds like shes about done with him.

I would just agree and move on. Don't linger too much on him with the BF destroying. Keep her mind on you and not on whatshisface.

k well, i was thinking of just trying to change the subject and be like "who knows. forget the drama..i dont like it, you dont like it.....(proceed to another subject)"

should i tell her she needs to move on and how, "i would never hold onto a friend who would rather go to sleep than hang out with me". ? or something similiar?

or i thought of standing up for him some more saying
"aw come one i bet he's really not that bad. he probably just doesnt know what hes doing. ... you guys are probably perfect for each other"

and thatll get her thinking how far from perfect they are and lose him.

she later mentioned how she made him a cake and got him a present and he knew about it. and didnt even aplogize.

maybe bring something up like "well he probably got you a gift as well and just felt sick"

but i really doubt he did and then shell realize how much worse it is. unless shes already there. im going to talk to her soong guys i need help!