**First of all, as I am a new member and do not already know every rule in here, please erase or move this post if it does not belong in this section of the forum**

With my first post, I would like to share with all of you one of the most gratifying experencies I have ever had while on a nightclub.

Let´s start with a little background, I myself am a very shy and introvert person, and I have always struggled when trying to approach woman (guess, thats no news in here...). So the night started as usual, me going out with some friends to a nightclub and not being able to approach just because of our irrational fears.
While the night progressed things weren´t looking good at all, some of my friends where getting more and more drunk, I had smoked some weed, but nothing beside that, no girls, not fun.

Sad and a bit tired I just told myself "don´t worry, its just another night, this thing will eventually happen" and told my friends I was leaving, two of them went along with me.
Here is when things started to get better, when leaving we overheard some live concert, so we decided to go there and see what was going on, surprisingly, there was a pretty good band on stage, so my friends started taking pictures, I dont like very much shooting photos so I just walked into the middle of the crowd and started singing and dancing all by myself, I was really happy at that time, really having a good time by myself. A few minutes after being into the crowd, I noticed a group of girls jumping and screaming and singing as it were the best band on earth, to which I replied with a big smile and then continued to be with myself, just enjoing the moment. The amazing thing is that after a few more minutes, one of those girls approached me and started a pretty flirtatious conversation which ended on a very long kiss and a number close and a facebook add.

This night blew my mind off, It was like a switch turn on in my head. I realised that because of taking all the pressure aside I had been able to convey a very powerful message to that girl. She saw me all by myself, in the middle of a crowd dancing an singing very confidently and when I noticed her, I didnt even tried to approach or anything like that, I just plain and simple smiled at her and kept doing what I was doing, having fun and enjoying myself.

At the moment I didnt realised what had just happend, I just thought I had been very lucky. But after analysing the situation and talking with her for a while, I noticed all the things that I did very well in order to get that interaction going. It was all unconciously, but right now I am completely sure that this specific thins have much to do with what you wanna convey.

Cheers,
Joaquín

BTW: Sorry for my messy english, It is not my main language.