I'm wondering if there are any good pickup artists out ther ewho have experience with gaming in smaller cities. My city is pretty small, so its not like in NYC or any of the other places major pickup artists game, where you have an endless stream of women walking by you on the street. Also...word gets around my city pretty well when your a guy like me whose out there playing the field...I find that a lot of the women I end up dating have friends who know me...or have been gamed by me...which ends up being a problem. Lol has anyone else delt with small city logistics for the game?

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I'm not a good PUA, but I'm also living in a small city and in a different country than mine. I do think that game is completely different in a place like this than in a city. The streets do not provide an endless stream of women walking by. In fact after 1 or 2 weeks walking in them you'll see mostly only familiar faces.
I remember in first grade there were some girls in my classroom saying things like:"if you talk to that person, I'll never talk to you" I thought that was over. But here in this place I see that pattern a lot, people hang out in small groups and if someone visits on pub, they'll never go or talk with someone who visits another pub.

What I learned is that you can't be that straightforward(aggressive) over here. I've learned to be patient and look for opportunities because I've really a lot of bad experiences by approaching and gaming.


So yeah if anybody has some knowledge to share in these situations I'll also appreciate it a lot.

Wow yea it sounds like your in a small town, not a small city like I am. Ive always thought it would be a nightmare to be trapped in a small town like that trying to game because it would be exactly like grade school. ANd I actually did live in a small country town for a while 8 years ago, but I lived there as a retreat to get away and practice shamanism and write my first book. I barely went out for that time but could see how impossible itd be to be a pua there. Wanna know what Id recommend my friend? Moving. The easiest way would be to move to your nearest city. Or you could be super ambitious and just move to a dream destination of yours.

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This is me. I live in a small-mid sized city. I used to live in Chicago, so I'm very keen on the differences between big cities and small cities. Pick up some hobbies. I recommend social dancing (swing, blues, salsa, etc.). If you are at all musical, then start a band.

Online dating and social circle game are the way to go. Work on building a big circle of friends. Also, having a reputation of being a bit of a playboy isn't necessarily a bad thing. If you are discreet, non-monogamous and good in bed (i.e. secret society), then girls will tell their friends.

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Do not remind me of the social dancing... I joined Salsa lessons and Ballroom dancing, because I like to dance, I like to learn new skills all the time and because I thought it would be good for picking up girls...
Well there are like 4 divorced women in their mid 40ties which are still f@ckable, and the rest are divorced grandmothers...

Online dating has been an option more or less...

In social circle I've got now success at all, I've made a lot of acquaintances with locals but I've never been able to make 1 friend. Some say hi to you at work, some others invite you a drink when they are drunk in the bar, but the relationship does not grow from that.
And yes there are some other internationals here who are good friends some Asians who got married through arrange marriage, who brought the wife here but the wife does not know anybody and has no friends. And some other guys from the rest of the world who like me do not know so many women.

I dance lindy-hop and blues. There are a mostly young people in my dance scene. Blues, in particular, is pretty awesome for pick up; dancing slow blues can be very sexually flirtatious.

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Why are you so worried about your reputation if you are having success with women? Approach, Escalate, Isolate. That's it. Stop this needy "What if she finds out that I date other women?" thing you're doing and start being a fucking man.

There is nothing wrong with dating many people. That is what dating is. Monogamy is THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE OF THE MALE!!!!!!

Playing the field? How about - I am dating around to see what I like without becoming dependent on something that doesn't satisfy me. Hey girl, if you were not insecure you would understand and be cool.

If you are a man that can get many dates with many women then why wouldn't you do that? Monogamy is for men who are desperate.

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I have actually been focusing more on social circle game, but so far have had a similar experience to worldrunner. RElationships arent developing, people arent good friends, a lot of the guys Ive gone out to pick up women with will be aweful and bring me down in field more than if I was alone haha. ANd sometimes I'll meet really cool groups of people and hang out with them, get some phone numbers, maybe meet up with them again sometime, but it just doesnt go anywhere after that. I think that social circles are more closed off in smaller cities too because the smaller city has just a socially limiting SPAM and causes people to have these socially limiting attitudes about them. But I will keep at it.

IVe been meaning to take some dance classes but lack of money or time has stopped me, it is definately something I'm going to do though and good advice.

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Lothario, I can see that you are clearly retarded and cannot read, or perhaps are autistic and off in your own world.

I dont knjow how you derived something so opposite from my post, and I'm not going to spend much energy on you, but I will spell it out for you more clearly.

THe problem here is not htat I want monogamy, and again, I'm not sure what mental shortcoming made you read that so wrong. I am a polygamist. I never said anything about wanting monogamy. But why dont we take this opportunity to help you realize that there is something seriously wrong with your reading comprehension, or comprehension in general, and you should really work on that.

THe problem here is that I do date multiple women, and things dont often end well. As you can see when someone does something completely stupid I call them out on it. ANd if women give me drama or are deceitful or do any of the variety of fucked up things women can do, I'll call them out on it and let them knjow exactly how I feel about it. Anyways, there are some aspects of my reputation tha ti guess are not good because of this, as things do not always end well with me and other women, and sometimes a girl I'm dating hears some negative information agbout me from another woman. That is the problem...

Which again, is what I stated more generally in my original post, which you clearly failed to wrap your one track mind around, which was obviously busy with your own scripted processes wanting to contribute your two cents, whether it applied to the conversation or not. Again, something you should really work on as a pick up artist. If your conversations, behaviors, and mental processes are all based on pre programmed pre rehearsed scripts...your not going to find yourself very much stuck...and people will realize that they are talking to a robot, and wont like it.

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Seeing that you continue to flame me, this will be the extent of time you are given. You came here for advice, so be a little more humble. If you don't like my advice you can ignore or disagree, but I will not tolerate active disrespect for time taken out of my day to help someone who was once in the same place I dug myself out of.

Good luck on your own. Best wishes.

GFTOW

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I am from a big city but I am studying at a university that has a small campus. The game is very different here, everyone knows everyone and the only thing I found that was helpful for gaming in a small town was the book "conquer your campus" by Mark Redman. Good luck.

This.

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Small town game is much more involved. I have lived in tiny (-3000), small(-50,000) medium (-250,000), and large (1million) cities.

In smaller towns, simply being popular and having a reputation of being good in the sack is the only thong that gets you laid. Until I lived in bigger cities, I never even had to try to get laid by a new chick.

All the smooth talking, texting, and parlor tricks are not effective.

Huh? Getting laid in a big city is the easiest thing in the universe.... And you claim to have slept with about a million women or something?

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Lol!! No. Those numbers represent the population of the respective city size as I meant to reference them in the post.