| This is kind of long.. But it’s a funny story..
This girl has it all- smart, smokin’ hot, firecracker personality, parents are doctors, etc.. Only thing is that she’s not playing with a full deck.
We met once for drinks.. Got pretty tipsy, if not, drunk, and went back to her place. I was AFC at the time, so I didn’t know what I was doing. We started making out, then I picked her up, carried her into her room, and threw her on her bed. Major IOI’s from this girl. She’s really into the dry sex. It made me think she would be great at sex. I thought it would happen. My bedroom “game” was to talk dirty to her.. That’s about it, lol.
She would say “I so want you inside me, but I want you to want me tomorrow!” Being AFC, I didn’t handle LMR like I should, I just pushed some more.
We went back out to her living room, she served us shots of peppermint schnapps (pardon me for a moment, I just threw up a little in my mouth). She made me a sandwich, turned on the TV.
She goes back to change into a pair of adidas pants and a sweat shirt. She emerged from her room and made her way to the couch, where I was, crashing into every wall, table, and lamp in between. I knew she was intoxicated, but I didn’t know she was –that- wasted.
She started talking to me in a different voice! It was like she became a different person! At first I thought it was funny, you know, like sometimes you use a different voice for a punchline to a joke or story.. But she kept it up! On and on, in this southern voice. I started to call her “Annabelle”.. At one point I said:
“Annabelle, can I talk to (her name) again?”
I think she muttered something about guys not liking her, and that she wants me to want her tomorrow. It was the most bizarre experience with a girl I have ever had. The whole time, I swore to God, any minute Ashton Kutcher would come running out with a camera crew yelling “YOU GOT PUNK’D!”
I haven’t seen this girl since then. We made plans to hang out the next night but she canceled. A week would go by, and she would leave me a message:
“….if you’re a glutton for punishment, call me… otherwise I guess I’ll see you around”
She goes on vacation for two weeks, comes back, and texts me:
“I’m back in town, let’s get together soon, k?”
I agree. We speak on the phone and she says:
“Really? Seriously? You’ll give me another chance?”
But she’ll cancel, leave me a message saying:
“I’m sorry.. I’m so lame.. I’m just going to go home. I’m a hermit.. I’m so lame..”
A couple weeks later, we texted back and forth…. She was home sick from work. I told her she missed my b-day, and that she owes me a drink next time.
She texts back:
“As soon as I emerge from my death bed, I’ll take you out for drinks and/or debauchery!”
I text back:
“You’ve got a long way to go to work your way back into my good graces, but it’s a start”
Who knows what will happen. We may or may not ever get together (and I won’t care). That’s not really the question.
The question is— if we DO get together, how do I game a girl like this? She says things that make me think she has a really low self-esteem.. Mystery once said you have to game girls differently- 10’s love the cocky attitude and will blow you out if you seek report. 7’s hate cocky guys, and instead, you should seek report..
How do I make this girl feel good about herself and comfortable around me?
Do you ever think that some girls –like- a guy to be AFC in some ways? For instance, if guys won’t commit to her because she has multiple personalities, she may –like- it if I say
“I think your multiple personalities is an endearing quality. I’m really interested in getting to know all of them”
Ok. So maybe I won’t say that, exactly. But what if I show interest in her, as a person, (right away)? Hint that I think she’s LTR material? This is all AFC stuff.. I just wonder if it could work on a girl like this.
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