Value Yourself as A Man

Why would a beautiful woman share a celebrity with a bunch of groupies while a woman would break up with the average guy for cheating? Value.

You are already defeated if you approach a woman thinking “you’re so beautiful, I wish I could be with you.” She already has all the value and its going to be shown in your words and in your vibe. Sadly, if you have been broken hearted or rejected, subconsciously you might think women are better than you. Your mentality should be that you’re doing her a favor by talking to her. You are what she wants, but you don’t need her. You have options.

What has value is usually scarce. You give yourself value by having distinguished characteristics. You also give yourself value by doing impressive things. Impressive conversation, dress etc…You do something and people say that pretty tight, well then you got value. Take pride in yourself.

By kidding her you illustrate that you are not impress by her value. Less is more. You never want to seem like you want her oh so bad. This goes to the point of not talking to much. Usually guys try to impress women with his words coming across as try hard. Its best to just get the girl talking and she’ll project fantasies onto you. Smooth Operator.

Something that has always attracted women for me is to impress then to act totally disinterested. Women chase everytime.

As far as disrespect. It makes you look low value to take disrespect but it also makes you look low value to be highly affected by disrespect. Showing that someone has hurt you shows that they have some power over you; if you are from a female dominated house hold chances are you show your emotions more especially when hurt. Girls don’t consciously test guys, they are just used to treating guys as if they aren’t special so you have to train her to treat you as special. You have to make her behave as if she values you and you have to be stubborn with this. Its king of like an Officer and the enlisted. Never play her game. In all situations your value is more important that her liking you. If she is giving you shit, well you are too good for that.

If you don’t value yourself. You will never get a girl and sadly most guys are defeated before they even approach a girl.

Im confused with the photo.... Kobe thinks highly of himself. You can even see it in this photo. Fake value, but also is high value because of his occupation. Yet this photo was taken at the the worse emasculating, man card rejecting, AFC, begging event in the history of the world... followed by the four million dollar pink diamond ring.

"shes so special to me" "she every beat of my heart" (throws up in mouth) and on national TV no less.

Kobe: thinks he is high value, is high value, goes on TV to let everyone know his backbone is of little value.

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My personal mantra:

"Every woman's a whore in the right situation"
"They're all selling it for something"
"She's sluttier than you think she is"

Vanessa is a beautiful woman and could have many other men, but because she values Kobe so much she stays with him although he cheats on her. That's the reason I posted the picture to illustrate that point.

I think Vanessa values being Kobe's wife too much to leave him. About 2 years ago she filed for divorce citing over 100 cases of "known" infidelity. However, she decided to stay. I don't think the press conference was a case of weak back bone though. She could have divorced him and took half. So whats 4 mil compared to giving her 100 mil or more?

Values are relative so you really can't say someone has fake value.

Aw, yes, taken from Vanessa's point of view this was a great thing. I 100% agree with you on the reason she stays. If she valued herself more than Kobe she would have walked like Elin Nordegren and taken half. I totally disagree that this PC doesn't lower Kobe's value. A. If I remember correctly he did lose endorsements over this. Stupid, but so did Tiger. B. He caught a lot of shit for emasculating himself on TV. Please don't argue this point... its obvious.

So get handed his balls to his wife over 50 mil? Thats just not worth it to me. I dont need that much. Its his fault hes in that spot in the first place. I've never been in this place but I would like to think I would grab my balls way more. Fuck it, Ive grabbed my balls for a lot less. I never apologize for being a man and wanting other women. Have you heard the Kanye West song "Runaway"? I'll paraphrase the verse not by Kanye: Yeah, I cheated. I did it. Leave or Live with it. Youre willing to go back to fake labels over this? I'll list some of the amazing things you have because of my value. Plenty of women want to fuck me and you should go if you don't get that. Again, I have all these things of value...

This is how I value myself. Kobe could have grabbed his nuts and been a man... He didnt. He emasculated himself on TV. Lowering is value in a lot of eyes. Sure hes Kobe Bryant and doing just fine... but hes also a pussy.

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My personal mantra:

"Every woman's a whore in the right situation"
"They're all selling it for something"
"She's sluttier than you think she is"

He lost endorsements because he was accused of rape. I never saw it as emasculating.