This is not about PU but about a pattern which I've observed in my life. I'm not exactly sure if what I'm experiencing is normal or if I'm completely out there. I suffer from immense shifts in interests in my life. I say suffer because I've spent the past year building my life to exactly what I invisioned a year ago. Now that I am exactly where I wanted to be, I've developed an interest in a completely different lifestyle. I'm looking down the road when the time comes for me to marry and have children. I don't want to commit to that when experience has taught me the following year I may have a desire to be single. It effects all major aspects of my life. Major shifts like this can't be good for me. My question is, do I change this or do I fulfill it?