Use the "Reference Peg Elimination Technique" to eliminate any self-destructive belief within minutes, that maybe killing your chances of success in life and in love!
I wanted to share with you "one" of many strategies I employ during a "live in field training program" to help a client eliminate self sabotaging thought patterns, beliefs and behaviours. As you know they can kill any chances of success in life and in love and in their absence, can lead to success in life and in love.
Do you have any negative beliefs about yourself or about the world in which you live in that are causing you to think, feel or act "unsuccessfully" with women? What do I mean by a belief?
For instance:
"I am too short to be attractive to women!"
"I am too old to seduce young women!"
"She is way out of my league!"
"I am just an average Joe!"
etc.....
Does this sound familiar?
Now let me ask you this. Do you think these beliefs impact how you "perceive and filter" your experiences and hence determine how you react to them? You better believe it! How so, might you ask?
If you don't believe in yourself, you will fear taking action when you spot a woman you fancy, out of fear of failing. You will not give it your all when interacting with her, thereby producing failure or half-assed results. Finally you will never project onto a woman the kind of self confident attitude that you need to in order to attract her. The result-she will be turned off by you!
Yes-All because of the "Power of belief"
Next-Have you taken inventory of what you believe, both good and bad? Have you decided what to keep and what to discard or do you let any old belief just run on "automatic pilot" thereby influencing you from "behind the scenes"?
Do you wish you didn't believe in the bad stuff but just can't rid yourself of it, no matter how hard you try?
Well I am now going to show you how you can, once and for all using an incredibly powerful, yet easy to employ technique called-"Reference Peg Elimination".
Here is the basis for this technique. You liken a "Core negative belief" to a table top and the legs holding it upright to "pivotal moments or experiences" you've had, from which you've decided that they are "supportive references" for that belief.
The goal is to break off each of those legs(reference points or pegs) eventually making the table top or your "core belief" fall to the ground.
For instance, let's say you have the belief-"I am too old to be attractive to younger women".
Well one of the legs or reference points might have been an experience where you asked a younger woman out and she said "You're just too old for me". You then most probably made a "decision" that, that experience is a supporting "reference peg".
Another experience might have been you hearing of your co-worker or friend being dumped for another guy who just happened to be younger. Once again, you probably made a decision that, that experience is a good "supporting reference peg" for your belief.
You kept on making these decisions and associations until you had 4 strong reference pegs to support your table top or core belief until it became very real in your nervous system.
So first, go back in time and try to determine what "experiences" were pivotal for you, in establishing themselves as reference pegs for any of your negative beliefs.
What you want to do next is to analyze each of those "reference points" and challenge them, one by one. For instance, to challenge the first reference point of you being rejected by a younger woman, ask yourself if a younger woman ever found you attractive. You will inevitably find that at least "one" has. This should make you discard the first experience as a supportive reference peg or point to your belief.
You can challenge the second reference point by asking yourself if you have ever heard of a younger woman leaving her partner for someone older. Here also, you will find that you have. You can now discard this experience also as a supportive "reference peg" to your belief. Are you with me so far? Good! Do this with all of your reference points or experiences, until you can disqualify each one of them as supportive.
Use this technique to eliminate all of your negative beliefs. Remember, keep on questioning each of the experiences you decided were "strong reference" points until you disqualify them as such.
As a result, your mind will associate massive pain to holding onto any of your negative beliefs because it will see that it is based on "bad interpretation" on your part, not on factuality. Consequently, it will discard them, thereby causing you to"drastically and positively" change the way you think, feel and act in life and in love.
Omar
http://www.maaximumseduction.com/
CHAT