Show them they can't have you.

Discuss.

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If she's attracted, this will make her more attracted for a while then she'll get tired and you are done.

If she's not attracted in the first place she won't give a shit anyway.

How do you show a women that she can't have you ?

Its simple, you show that you are too good for her. Women only 'chase' a man they know/think other women are competeing for. They have no other reason to jump through hoops, guys will flock to them if they are pretty enough anyways.

Think about all the 'crushes' a woman will say she has all the, movie stars, rich guys, famous people in general. Women are always looking to 'trade up' afterall.

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I agree with you. In which case I would reframe your post as to "Show her that you have an attractive life."

Agreed, My goal is only to state it in a simple way. Regardless the thought is said to be terrible in this day and age, but if you want women to chase you you have to believe something about you makes you better than whatever they have in their life. And if you believe it, they will have no choice to believe it as well until they see otherwise. This will intrigue them to know more about you, and by remaining flirtatious yet mysterious/ unpredictable this will create attraction.

This simple truth that you are worth a great deal is the cornerstone of the "you are the prize" mentality, Scarcity vs Abundance, and even the Cocky part of DDs C&F.

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This is what it's really about I believe. You can get a girl if you chase her, you can get a girl if she chases you. They seem opposites, but what do you have to have in either case? Congruence. Showing her she can't have you can definitely work, you have to remain congruent to it. But what you're really doing is not taking her shit, your not succumbing to anything and everything she says and does. You are doing your own thing.

Same way if you chase a girl. If you chase her, and she says no, and you ignore and don't take her shit and continue, she can come around and succumb. It's all about disregarding what she thinks and/or says, and looking at her behavior. Don't take her conscious bullshit, look at her subconscious. It's telling the truth.

That went a little off topic, but just a train of thought.

I think my one liner would be "do your thing, if she doesn't like it, do it anyway."

I think the OP idea of showing her she can't have you is great, but it's not the single best concept of how to get women to chase you. The single best concept I could teach men to get women is this:

Have a life that women want.

That's the biggest secret. Women are above all else attracted to a man that will lead them through life, much like a father figure. The most attractive thing a man can do is to build an attractive life for himself. Do that and women will chase you even if you have no game.

This is actually the same concept, but different at the same time.

When you have a life that women want, youll be strong, good looking, have lots of money, and everyone will love you. Obviously this is near impossible to achieve for most of us. Instead of building directly from what women want, the same effect can be achieved by building what YOU want. You might not be rich or good looking, but you will prove you are a catch just by having your life in order and being happy.

if you're happy, you'll notice all sorts of people wanting to meet you, wanting to know your secret and how you are so happy. That is an Attractive lifestyle( Keep it away from women like cats and a piece of string and they'll chase you no doubt)

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Best parts... and I will just add: Build an attractive lifestyle, but not around money, AROUND VALUE.

But around the things YOU VALUE. Find the things you value and enrich yourself with those things, then you WILL NOT attract all women but the ones that fit your values.

¨Notice the you WILL NOT ATTRACT ALL girls is the fundamental truth of pick up, even if you are rich you will be attracting the type of girls that value money more than other things.

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