| Understanding logistics makes SNLs much more feasible. Now, there are several different things I am talking about...
First, Do you carry a condom with you when you go out? no? How easy do you think its going to be to walk back from a club/bar with a girl and stop at 711 when you have to stop and buy condoms and NOT disrupt her emotional thought process? Always have a condom with you. Also, Make sure it isn't some condom that you have been carrying since you started pick up. There is nothing more saddening to hear that a guy who has been going out for 2 years, finally gets his first lay and winds up getting some girl pregnant cause the condom broke. Don't be cheap either... I prefer Trojan over anything else. Personal preference. If you have this part taken care of, there is no reason for you to tell yourself "I can't pull this girl" because you are all ready.
Second, do you have somewhere to pull her to? Do you live close by the place you are going out to? Good, it's not easy to convince a girl to take a 45 minute cab ride back to your place. (Nor is it cheap. Take my word on that.) Is your place clean? Do you live with your parents and they aren't cool with you having girls over? If not, I suggest you do some research and find a cheap hotel for yourself. You could even check into the hotel BEFORE you go out... this way, it will give you even more motivation to pull and also allow you to avoid that awkward moment where this girl realizes she is about to check into a hotel with you for the night. Makes it go much smoother. (You wouldn't want to sleep alone in a hotel room that you just paid for, would you?) OR play the "I'm from out of town" card and try and get back to her place. This can be difficult especially if she says she is from out of town. You really have nothing there. The logistics don't work.
Third, figure out where she is staying. Who did she come to the venue with? Is she there with friends? If she is, she is most likely not going to leave with you infront of them. She won't want to look like a slut. Is she leaving soon? Discretely get her number once you have her hooked and get her to meet up with you later that night. When you get her number, be clear in your intent as to why you are getting her number... To hang out later or have some type of future event planned for the two of you. You aren't trying to make texting buddies, are you? If you are trying to get back to her place, suggest a meet up at another venue and then bounce her back to her place. Build that bit of extra comfort by having her be with you in another location then move it.
If you can understand the logistics in a pull, it makes it a hell of a lot easier to do and you won't waste your time on girls that you can't make it happen with right then and there. There is alot more to logistics so feel free to add anything else.
Hope this helps someone out!
-Majik
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