There's this older women who I've been kinda of seeing... She's giving loads of IOIs even playing footsie under the table etc.

However the problem as I come to find when you game older bird and your a young whippersnapper with limited experience is they had had relationships. Even bad one... In her case very bad ones when her ex was controlling and when they broke up try to kill.

I'm certainly in the friend zone, and she is blatantly interested in me/ visa versa. But I can't make sod all happen.

I'm worried now that
1. she will cotton on to my game and loss interest and just get fed up.
2. Just see me as a friend and that's all, "going no where" "this guy is shit when you get to know him."
3. If I do the AFC thing and ask her on a date which a guy I AMOG'ed did; will just get blown out completely and I'll get the whole shit story of "I'm not ready to trust a man ever again bla bla bla" Which is understandable but from her reactions to me in the past I know is not true. Then game over.

What is a Mensch to do? Can I stop this from freezing out permanently? Can rejection be avoided? Can I stop myself from becoming Mr boring Joe Public, Have I over invested to build comfort? (She knows a lot about me as I do her).

HELP ME PLEASE!

Therefore because each woman has to and more so desperately wants to conform to this "ideal blueprint" of what a real woman should act like and be, she will do whatever it takes to meet this challenge of throwing her off course. In other words, you will find that a woman will actually start to converse with you say things like

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By the way this is something that happens to me in genral not just this one bird is I haven`t broken the rules ha.

Do the opposite of being boring .... ku ku ku ... simple eh?

So let's define a person who is boring .... boring = predictable.
- If you are a nice guy ... you are predictable ... aka providing continuous positive energy.
- If you are constantly being an asshole ... you are predictable ... aka providing continuous negative energy.
* Therefore, provide both positive and negative energy into your interactions. Producing this unpredictability into your interactions. Girl's love this shit .... women in general loves to experience a range of emotions. The larger the contrast is .... mixed with time ... will result in girls be aroused by you. Well, they will be comfortable with you arousing them ^_^.

How is this done? Remember this:
1. Compliment what you like.
2. Challenge what you hate.
3. Acknowledge what is cool.
4. Acknowledge what is shit.

You don't have to be an asshole to the girl to produce negative energy. There are many ways to produce negative energy. For example, you can express how you hate the team Miami Heats ... or challenge what she likes.
- Example: <Girl> "I love the color blue." .... <You> "I hate the color blue."
- Yell: "Horse shit" ... not at the girl but just for no reason ^_^ ... just like what Adam Sandler does in a couple of his movies.

* At first, you'll have to be conscious of this of what type of energy you are expressing (aka mixing positive and negatives) ... but with enough practice you will develop this into your skillset/personality.
* The main goal is to achieve a level were you are in 100% expressing how you feel.
* PS .... this how to generate masculine polarity ^_^.

** Don't always try to pull, pull, pull ... you have to balance some pushes into your interactions ... to get the girls croch to be hot for your dick ... ku ku ku.