Hey I have a few multiple relationships at the moment that change every few months before I or her do the dumping.

The situation. I've been sleeping a hb7 for abt a month. Then she wanted to start dated which we went on recently and ended up in the same place the bedroom. She is one of a few I have at the moment but I like the sex with this girl as she is pure filth and is very physical and a talker which I like in bed. It's gets very animalistic and passionate when we kiss especially in public she gets very turned on. Anyway I came back from a lads holiday and met up with her at a bar with one of my friends and a good few of her friends. We ignore each other initionally but then we start talking and the kissing starts. She was getting drunk and turned on. We then went to another bar where a few guys tried it on with her but she pushed them away and came back to me. However there was one guy she took a shining to and started making out with him right there in from of me. I was annoyed so I left the group and went home as I walked passed her she saw me and tried to cover her eyes in the guys jacket and her friends saw it as I just walked out. She was meant to come home with me so I thought fuck it he can have her.

She text and rang me as i was heading home but i just ignored her calls as she ended up going home with her friends instead.
The text went like this:

Hb7: are you in a mood with me??? xx
Me: no reply
Hb7: are you in a mood??
Me: no reply

After about 3 missed calls that night I woke up to another 4 missed calls and a text.
Hb7: I'm an idiot aren't I??x
Me: no reply
Then she tried ringing a few more times later that day. So I just sent her txt

Me:You knew what you was doing even when I walked past, you hid. By all means have fun. We are not in a relationship but you was with me last night.

I'm not angry or in a mood seriously. I have no right to. I knew what I was involved with when we started but that was disrespectful, wrong and you know it. Right in front of me!!

This can go no further. See you around.

Hb7:I really had no intention of doing that. I'm mortified today because that's really not me. I couldn't imagine how I would feel if you had done that to me. I really don't mean to be such a bell end I just shouldn't have drank so much.

You have every right to be angry, us not being in a relationship doesn't change what I did. I can understand that you don't want to see me again, but I would like the chance to apologise properly and maybe make things better? X

Me:Using alcohol as an excuse is a cowards way. It just highlights a lot about you. There are plenty of girls like you in xxxx (place i live) I can have fun with but I don't waste time with disrespectful people.

The answer is no. I don't tolerate that behaviour in my life. If I see you out I will not be rude I will say hi but whatever you think we had is gone.

She also posted a status on Facebook saying how much of an idiot she was for getting too drunk.

Hb7: I get that you're annoyed but don't for one second think you know me and can judge me on that 1 thing. I'm so upset with myself for the way I have behaved and that is enough. I don't need you to now assume I'm "one of those girls". I know I'm a good person, I'm not blaming the alcohol I'm blaming myself for getting in such a state where I make bad decision.
Again, I'm sorry I really can't apologise enough. See you around

Me: no reply

I'm not sure if I overreacted? Sex was good though . What would you have done in that situation?

Thanks in advance

If you're certain you want her out of your life you did the right thing. She'll chase u for a while but if you keep ignoring her texts/calls she'll eventually give up and move on. Although IMO she seemed pretty sincere in that apology I obviously can't say for sure because I don't know her. You can always tell the difference between a fake apology and a real one and the fact that she called you too and didn't just wait for you to text might imply that she cares and doesn't want to lose you. I personally think she wants you as more then an f-buddy but that's just what it comes back to. You showed her you don't need her and can live without her. Now th question is do you want her out of you life for good if so do what your doing if not contact her again. As far how you handled it I'd say you did it right u showed u won't put up with that but what you do from here on out is gonna determine your future with this girl. Hope that's helped a bit good luck

I like what you did, punish bad behavior(disrespect, no the hooking up, since is open relationship), but i would take her back, specially if the sex is good, give it 1 or 2 days freeze out, and then talk to her normal like nothing ever happened.

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i personally think you handle it well:you didnt swear at her or call her a slut,you showed your mood,you proved yourself to be higher than her and you dont need her but maybe give her a chance to explain her side(i know there is no side but just let her),then make up your own decision from it ,if the sex was good,im pretty sure you can find another girl out there who gives better sex . what she was completely disrespectful,been there as well but if you choose to let her go,remember plenty more chicks out there .Under all circumstances you didnt over-react!!!! you kept a calm state of mind

proud and inspiring story man

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