Guys, I'd appreciate some advice on how you're able to dumb your conversations down to a level that would entertain an HB without losing the will to live. Most things I'd talk about with friends would go completely over their heads (and no, I'm not talking about geek speak). At classier parties I'm usually able to have a sophisticated conversation with the classier girls (it can be almost anything intellectual; history, politics, business, science, philosophy, whatever), and I do really well in those situations, but you don't randomly find intellectuals walking the street in yoga shorts. What are the things you guys do to stay interested in conversations with girls you open? How do you avoid with having to discuss traffic and Kardashian's new baby? I realize, and I do lead the conversation, but unless I lead it somewhere immensely stupid, they're not going to get/care what I'm talking about and would get bored really quickly. So to keep them entertained, I have to make myself bored. Lately I've just been not giving enough fucks to stick around after the open and actually put in the effort to talk, and its hurting my game. And no, I don't walk with a stick up my ass. People first meeting me usually assume I belong in the gym, not a library. Advice?

Propinquity Sarging + Geographic Rotation Sarging Strategy

A neighboring city some 4 kilometers away has two universities and several colleges. There's this little coffee shop with high priced coffee where the masteral degree and Ph.D. types (professors and post-graduate students) hangout during certain times of the day. You can't barely see college students hanging around the venue because of the pricey menu.

What I do is hangout and slowly demolish my cappuccino grandes at this coffee shop at around 3:00 p.m. Tuesdays and Fridays for 3 weeks straight. I work online so I can literally sarge while working. Since I've already built propinquity with the service crew and the regulars see me as a familiar face, I've formed a social circle in this venue which kept on expanding.

The conversations in this venue can be over the top intellectual with topics like Thermodynamics, Organic Chemistry, Actuarial Science, Fractals, and other bullshit like that. When my head is already spinning from all of these intellectual discussions, I bounce to a mall where college students hangout. I sing onstage a public videoke joint at the foodcourt to ease out some work-related tension.

After showcasing the high testosterone qualities of my voice via well selected rock songs and rap songs, I get all kinds of approach invitations, kinos and what have you. However, the conversations now turn into useless fluff, crappy gossip and vulgar topics like fucking, vaginas and cocks with some hot girls while we're sharing a cheap 1.5 liter soda worth something like US $1.

If you want to sarge the intellectual types, you might need to spend a little more than usual. If you want to sarge the dumb but hot types, you'll only spend a lot less of moolah.

Simply stated:

• Yin and Yang. Venue change determines the kind of topics you get into.

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Lets not kid ourselves. There aren't going to be very many HB10s in that academia central coffee shop you go to. Also as a grad student in natural sciences, I can tell you that the smart girls, aside from not looking the best, tend to be a bit full of themselves because of the overwhelming amount of attention they get from white knights. The hottest girls are usually also the dumbest, so for just a hookup scenario, that's what I'm going for. I just run out of things to talk to them about really quickly. Any ideas?

seems like you could use some practice getting in touch with your emotional side a bit more, there seems to be a big emphasis on the logical mathematical side of things, the solving of problems and the encouragement of debate to promote new philosophy, with a disconnect between how you feel during conversations, you may just find problem solving very emotionally stimulating but have trouble connecting with some people on that because it is not common ground, but you can create common ground with them by bringing some passion to the subjects, you can talk about nearly anything if it is emotionally stimulating then people will get interested in what you have to say, but there has to be some feeling there, boring conversation with someone who is stoic and monotonous is well... boring, unless logically that topic somehow sparks emotional stimulation, and for this it's usually going to take some critical thought to come up with a solution to the problem, some people are just not stimulated by this, just like others aren't really all that concerned with where Kim K was last seen eating, but two people that don't share the same logical ground can still connect emotionally, it's like when you're with a buddy just talking about something completely mundane but you and him just start getting silly and before you know it the two of you are laughing together like crazy over something that a stranger would look at you strange for, it's the feelings behind the content, not the content

if you really got nothing left and it is boring to the point that there is an almost air of melancholy, then you just might be with the wrong girl, or too needy for attention and not moving things along logistically or going for the kill

but you have to ask yourself realistically, what are you bringing to the table for these girls?, what are they bringing to the table for you?, why do you feel that hot girls can't hold a good conversation but somehow unattractive girls can?, why are you trying to spend time with girls you don't like?, and if you can meet girls you do like, you should be able to get them, if not, why not? (what are you not bringing to the table for them *where can you improve*), and when you do get the girls you are meeting, are you happy? do you feel fulfilled?, what makes you actually feel fulfilled rather then what do you think you want from a materialistic point of view?

Eh, you have a monogamous frame of mind. One girl cannot give you everything you want. That's reality. Sometimes you feel like eating Japanese food; the next day, you feel like taking out Chinese and then come lunch time, you'll crave for some fish n' chips.

The same goes for almost anything in society. When I want good conversation after a weekend fuck, I call the intellectual types. When my laundry has piled high, I set up a hangout with the dumb, hot types. When I just want to bum around, I hangout with the funny types. When I want to sing before a f-marathon, I hangout with the girls who want to sing.

I think you'll be happier if you kept one HB10 dumb type who'll clean your house and do your laundry, an HB7 intellectual type who can lend you money every now and then, and one HB6 bimbo type who's willing to give you a great blowjob, suck your balls and lick your arsehole.

Think of a Ford assembly line. Now, can you imagine that? Build up your team of girls so you're happier at the end of all those sarges.

You should really move on from the Feudal Age point of view on relationships and try some Industrial Age type of relationships. Right now, it's still impossible to get a Knowledge Economy type of relationship so I think you're better off with the next best option; Lean Manufacturing and Six Sigma MLTRs.

That's one way to go if you're open minded enough.

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Downed a few Red Horse beers so I almost missed that one. Learn the Wide Rapport Technique. This works well on girls who love to join beauty pageants and bikini opens, here: my-sticking-point-generating-attraction ... ml#p780161

That link is about the basics for newbies. If you want to go for a same day lay, just combine the conversational style with an isolation technique that works best fer yah.

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