I finally realized what my goal in pickup is..

I want to become so invaluable to women that she (my partner, preferably a LTR) proposes to me. Effectively going against the social bullshit standard that men have to make the major moves. Anyone think it can be done?

I may be reaching for an impossible goal, I don't care. If feminism is what they think they want, then it's what they will get.

Think it's possible? Discuss.

(P.S: I'm not banking my entire love life on this. But I feel like this is just abstract enough to make a great goal to reach for during my journey)

Ridiculous, if your goal is a ltr, find a girl that you can be your true self with and she adores they way you are, and vice versa. You have the wrong mindset. Pick up should be being the best attractive self you can be, don't obsessed to much over this crap, it can take you to dark places.

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What?

Why? (No Seriously)

To me this is the weak way out.... this is like I don't want to get rejected....

I suggest you take the masculine role of any relationship you be a part of this means even escalating the relationship should be you wanting and trying for that...

+ What skills said!

Peace and Love,

Vic

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It can be done. Ive been proposed to twice.

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aiden k. baker

The funny thing was the first time I almost said yes lol

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Ok, i will explain it to you slowly, if you are your best attractive self. Women will hint, monogamy, marriage, rings, babies etc... Some of them will act up, to get those things, trust me you don't want all that drama as a goal, someday you will understand. So yes, it will come with the territory. But you are talking about it as a goal, which i think is totally ridiculous and outcome dependent, but hey it can sound "Awesome" in a forum to impress total strangers in the internet and/or impressive to your friends. But is that your goal to impress? Cause i do not see the relevance in your goal?

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First off ill address what skills originally posted:

"Ridiculous, if your goal is a ltr, find a girl that you can be your true self with and she adores they way you are, and vice versa. You have the wrong mindset. Pick up should be being the best attractive self you can be, don't obsessed to much over this crap, it can take you to dark places."

I get that, and you're absolutely right.
Why? Because I (honestly) believe in the inherit equality that (supposedly) exists between men and women. Not to mention that the more attention and ego boosting that AFC men give to women the more it leads to their narcissism. So (imo) if they're going to control all this social power then it's their responsibility to use it. (Think instagram)

Put short: If women are REALLY the choosers then why should I fool myself into thinking any differently?

Disclaimer: Maybe there is a bit of spite in this post. I haven't had any problems maintaining a few relationships (platonic and romantic) with attractive women as a dominant male. I just get fed up every once and a while when I remove myself from the situation and look at it objectively.

P.s: I don't have a instagram for this exact reason