This is Omar aka McMaax from Maaximum Seduction. I'm sure you can agree that most of the beautiful women that you will spot in the real world, in particular in lounges, parties or clubs will be nested very tightly within their large peer groups. It can be a daunting task to try to figure out how to approach a group, where your object of desire is located in and "get her", without resistance from her social circle. Well, not anymore.
Let me introduce......
"The Triple D model" for social set domination. Owning large sets has never been so easy!
So here we go. Here are the 3 D's or steps to eating large sets for breakfast.
1. Exhibit Dominance
2. Divide and Conquer
3. Demonstrate Value
Let's go ahead and dissect each one in detail.
1. Exhibit dominance to the social circle
The first thing you must do, as soon you enter a social venue and the "field of view" of the women and people there is to convey confidence, dominance and leadership.
The reason for this is because remember, seduction starts well before "Hi" or what ubiquitously is known as the "The Opener". This is because humans have long distance, social intelligence which they use to gather a lot of information about each other from afar, based on each other's non-verbal communication and behaviors.
Consequently both the men and women will start to size you up, based on your body language and non-verbal mannerisms as soon as you enter the venue. They will then start to make assessments of where you belong in the scheme of things or in the social hierarchy. In other words, they will decide whether you are of high social value(Alpha) or low social value(Beta), based on your body language and other non-verbal mannerisms.
They will then quickly make a decision based on this, whether to welcome your entry and stay into their comfortable little social net or eject you upon entry. They will also use this information to further decide how they will treat you once inside their social circle.
Specifically, they will either treat you with respect, because you have telegraphed leadership and dominance in the venue and exhibited social proof from its patrons( high value behavior) or as an "Average Joe" because they saw you being ejected from a few sets before you approached theirs and observed that your non verbal traits and mannerisms indicate low social value compared with those exhibited by the other male patrons.
A cardinal rule in social interactions:
People naturally want to align themselves with those that have higher social value than them. I am not talking about simply "survival value" but those that are smarter, more driven, more intelligent, more interesting, more worldly, more cultured, more financially successful, more emotionally successful, physically fit, calmer, more relaxed when in dire straits, etc.
Why? Because it automatically rubs off on them and causes them to aspire to become better people.
Consequently, once we have demonstrated this Pre Opener Value we can then successfully go up to a set and be guaranteed that its members will be more than welcoming to our approach.
Now here are some specific ways to further exhibit dominance upon approaching the set. Spit out this opener with a very playful but dominant undertone.
"So are you guys like the cool crowd in here or "A-listers"? I tend to gravitate towards high achievers only". Make sure to say this in a very cocky but playful and fun attitude.
You can address the men in the set and use friendly, but subtly condescending remarks to exhibit superior social value to them like:
Hey big guy.
Its use in the field. Pat one of the male's shoulders once and then say:
"Hey big guy so are you the leader of the pack here? Good man Good man! I guess I better watch it huh?"
Excuse me boss.
Its use in the field. "Excuse me boss, but do you have the time? By the way, cool watch chief"
Good man! Good man!
Its use in the field. "So what about you chief, what do you do? A doctor!. Good man! Good man! I hope I never have to meet you on a professional basis".
Can you feel how very friendly yet subtly condescending these remarks are?
Think about who makes such remarks. That's right! A big brother to his little brother. A boss to his employee. A coach to one of his players or A mentor to one of his proteges.
As a result, you will quickly establish yourself as the "One" who is of higher social value compared to the other male members of the social circle, since you exhibited such dominance over them from both your non-verbals and the way you spoke to them.
Got it? Good.
So remember, the first thing you must do when you walk into a social situation is to own it. Own it with your presence, clothing style, body language, charisma, dominance over the other male members, social proof from other women, louder than life attitude and vocal projection, ultra colorful vocal tonality and facial expressions, dominant piercing gaze, sly smile, cool walk and stance, etc.
Bottom line-You maybe 5"7" but you need to be 20 ft tall with your personality, attitude and body language.
Unfortunately most guys don't do this. They have been taught to go up to a large social circle and spit out an opener that attempts to engage all of its members. Let me tell you that it doesn't matter how engaging the content of your opener is or how interesting you are. This is secondary in terms of importance!
People, especially those that are occupied by the company of their closest and most endeared friends, acquaintances and contacts will only give you the time of day, if you dominate them and come as a more powerful source of positive energy, than the collective sum of all of their social circle members. Makes sense? Great!
Now you don't really have to dominate the females in the set who may be the girlfriends, co workers or acquaintances of your object of desire but you will want to execute the next step on both the women and the men in the large group which is to...
2. Divide and Conquer the social circle.
What this means is simply to "peel them off", one by one and get them on your side, so that they don't put up any resistance to you isolating your object of desire later on, to build comfort with her and to get intimate with her.
You started to do this with the males by a combination of exerting dominance over them and demonstrating superior social value but also by being super duper friendly. In other words, you presented yourself as someone who is generous, cool, friendly and warm but also someone they should associate with, as it will force them to aspire to become better men.
In other words, the social dynamic that you set up here is like Student-Teacher or Big brother-Little Brother. You follow me? Good!
You now want to also compliment them, to add the finishing touch. So mention how cool their clothes are, how funky their hair styles are, how you have a lot of respect for doctors ( if one of the males mentions that he is one), how warm and generous they are, how grateful you are to be allowed entry into their very tight nest, etc.
Remember, stroking someone's ego in a very calculated way like this is one of the most powerful ways to get them to adore you. It is also a behavior that is very leader-like because only a true "Alpha tribal leader" who is unaffected by others is able to give true genuine compliments to others. Furthermore, a person of higher value typically gives compliments to those of lower value because it has greater value, importance and effect than if delivered by someone of low social value.
For the women in the set, compliment them as well. Specifically put your focus on their hairstyles, their clothing, their jewellery and on their personalities.
The dynamic you set up here is one of a potentially great friend. In other words, the women in the group should think of you as the most dashing, charismatic, cultured, respectful and interesting man they have ever encountered. Think about the logistical advantage to this. Of course, they will not put up resistance to you isolating your object of desire later on and getting comfy and even intimate with her.
I mean why would they? You just blew them out of the water with your personality and they always dreamed of having someone like you in their lives as a male friend, a component of their social circle since it will raise its social value and as a partner to their friend ( your object of desire).
So can you see how you walk into a social circle as a "no name brand" and initially as a perceived threat but then walk out with each member revering you and wanting to associate with you? That's what I am talking about.
Once again, this is essential in setting up the framework to successfully isolating your target with 0% resistance from the social circle, later on.
3. Demonstrate value to the group
The last thing you must do to really cap your ownership of the set, is to add value to them. In fact now you can spit out a cool question or exhibit a "DHV "or demonstration of higher value with a greater chance that the group will be receptive to it, whereas if you had simply opened with such a thing as most men have been taught to do, you would have gotten blown out. Remember, you need to dominate and then divide and conquer first as this puts you in a position to warrant respect and attention to whatever you say or do.
*You can then transition into a cool story
* Demonstrate your knowledge of hand analysis
*Tell the group jokes-Remember laughter besides food when shared with someone really creates a bond
This sort of the icing on the cake is necessary to make you more digestible to the group over the long term. Remember, if all you are is a dominating Alpha superman then you will not present yourself as one who others can relate to. You need to also ensure that you are fun, quirky, interesting, funny, etc. In other words someone that the other members can gel with and vibe with. Remember a great leader is also someone who can connect with the common folk.
Now, the consequence of all of this will be that the social circle will be at your mercy and will start to adore you. Hence, they will not put up any resistance to you isolating your object of desire later on. In fact, they will now support the two of you hooking up because it will mean that you will come around more often and that they will get to hang with you. Recall-Everyone wants a fun, interesting, warm, high social value exhibiting leader around them.
At the same time your object of desire will start to feel sexual attraction for you because while in set you would have subtly ignored her or at least acted indifferent towards her which is so against the grain of what she is used to from most men, while focusing more on her social circle and winning them over. Remember, peer approval for a woman means everything. It can literally make or break your chances with her.
Subsequent to getting your target interested in you, you will "hook" her and get her chasing you(recall the importance of getting a woman to invest in the interaction with you after she starts to display indicators of interest) then isolate her away from the group but still within their view, out of respect for them. You will then qualify her, build comfort with her and then set up a time bridge to seduce her on day 2.
So there you go, there is the thorough breakdown of how to take over a large social circle where your object of desire is located in, using our "Triple D model".
This is 100% field tested and fail proof.
I hope you will use the "Triple D model" to go out tonight or tomorrow and gain the respect and adoration of some large social units and the attention of their hot female members.
Until next time, get out there and be a man!
Omar aka "McMaax
http://www.maaximumseduction.com
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