So what I’ve learned from gaming girls is that one of the worst things is to act needy or desperate (because I’ve done it too many times in the past!). Usually if a girl is into me I just hook up with her, but I like this particular girl more than a random person. From my experiences, I finally learned that I should learn back and act cool when a girl’s into me

Well, this situation happened to me last night. There was a special black tie event at a club. I knew this HB8 from before, but I saw her last night and she wanted to go to the club together. So we were alone going there, but after we got there she disappeared. I eventually saw her later and she was definitely into me.

*this is my main problem*
After I saw that she was interested I didn’t know what to do. I tried to play it cool and act disinterested, but may have done too much by talking to another girl at the bar when I was with the HB. Afterwards I think she wanted to make me jealous because I saw her hooking up with another guy. She may just be kind of slutty, but I’m not entirely sure. I know she is single though. Eventually I just acted too disinterested that she left with another guy that she knew!

So my questions are: 1) What should I have done when I saw that she was attracted to me. 2) Is there anything else that I can do to help my position now? I’ve done a good job working her until last night.

well acting not interrested is good however macking on other girls while u r with her isnt good, u need to learn to control urself and keep eye contact with her as much as possible(women find it VERY unattractive when u just check out other women while with her, nevermind hitting on them) so the more u can hold ur eye contact the better, especially in the cases where the girl has a nice rack and u want to check it out, DONT!!! control urself

Once you have the three IOI's - phase shift.

Don't even think about it just do it. Basically, kino and flirt with her.

You need to escalate the relationship between you two.