heres the thing, i know parts and parts of things but i just cant put it together. ive only had 2 real relationships and it started by them talking to me and we just enjoyed the conversation and eventually, we were going out. im sick of waiting for girls to approach me, because even if they do, im not sure of what to say and my mind goes blank. im completely gamesless. i realized that looks arent the only things that matter cuz to be honest, im not an ugly guy, i wouldnt say im a really hot guy, but i have heard that people think im cute or hot. but thats just what they thought, they expect me to go talk to them but i dont know how to. pleasse can you guys help me out? like a step by step process. ive read many post on here and i just cant seem to put everything together. ive also read mystery's dating book witht he m3 model but it doesnt sound complete. please, guide me to pick up a girl step by step.

thanks, ill greatly appreciate it

You don't need a bunch of routines man. Just go out and force yourself to be social. Talk to anyone and everyone. Start small with just smiling and saying "Hello", then work your way up. Take baby steps, but most importantly, have fun with it. See if you can turn it into a game for yourself or something. You are worrying too much.

TheChosenOne, welcome to the forum.

Can you shed some light? Why doesn't the M3 model sound complete to you? It IS a step by step process. To me, it sounds like you are simply over analyzing, trying to find something that doesn't need to be there. I've got students that do that. If this is so, you need to quit, because that just paralyzes you. The M3 model teaches you everything you need to get started. Trust me. I require all my students to read that anyway. You'll add stuff to the M3 model as you go along and grow, but it covers the basics. So, start USING It. Maybe once you use it you'll find out that what you need is there.

alright, ill go through the m3 model again. i mean, it sounds like it works, but adding my own stuff should make it even better im guessing. thanks aot guys, i appreciate the confidence boost, lol

Go out for five nights, approach a minimum of ten groups a night. Start random conversations, you can use any opener you find either in MM or here on the forum. Then ask the question 'how does anyone here know each other?'. Take all those conversations from there. Trust me, by the fiftieth group you will have noticed a difference alredy.

Then get back to me and I'll be happy to help you from there. But you need to put yourself out there first, nothing valuable will just come to you without effort.

I warn you though - it's gonna hurt. A lot

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