Hey Guys
Back again, a girl I thought I cared for left me for my friend. Ouch! That did hurt for all of one hour. Went out that very day, approached twenty women, got a date on Wednesday night. I approached a woman on a track that I was running with my mother (I occasionally exercise with her because she's trying to get into better shape and likes me to help her motivate) and got a Friday night date, and I approached girls on Monday and got a meet and greet on Saturday.

Pretty good for getting back out there for the first time. I forgot all the lines. Didn't have much social grace. I had just two things in my mind and it shattered all approach anxiety.

One, I'm a wonderful and great guy that can be an even greater man to any woman that wants me in her life.
Two, I love to make women feel beautiful and attractive and with each approach, whether they say yes or not, they'll feel beautiful and attractive and thus I've accomplished what I wanted to do.

So, it was no problem. Every time i see a beautiful woman I'm interested in, I just approach, no hesitation, no anguishing, just action, if even all I say is Hi, and she keeps walking past me, I'm just approaching anyone and everyone.

The right frame of mind can do wonders.

Fuck i'm trying to get there and i honestly share your views. I'm just having trouble getting past the fear, not of them saying no more of a social backlash of bystanders which is honestly complete stupidity.

I promote this guy and his work every day, Yourcharismacoach.com. Marcus Oakey is a genius. It's all free, he sells nothing, he just gives you a ton of information for free. I don't know how or why he does it and lives the life he does, but, he does.

That's Marcus Oakey, Yourcharismacoach.com. You want to get over the social pressure watch him.

Here's another thing you can watch. Impractical Jokers. Watch these guys make a fool of themselves at the expense of other people with no backlash, and just a little bit of embarrassment. Watch them for a few episodes and you'll begin to internalize that their is no fear.

Finally, there are a series of short-cuts. Shutting off your brain. The first day out I was in a bookstore, I decided just to approach people and see what happened, I mean, the worst that would happen was that I'd get looked at oddly. And, what happened, I got into some fun conversations with people and kept them going.

I began the process of getting use to starting conversations with strangers. Men and women, just talking to anyone that was doing something interesting or something I knew something about, then, I expanded to going up and engaging people that weren't doing much of anything. People like those random conversations occasionally. 30 days of engaging anyone that looks interesting to you with the intent of starting a conversation, then 30 days of engaging anyone that looks attractive to you, again for conversation (and if conversation is going well, then asking for a number), then the rest of your life approaching beautiful and desirous women anywhere and everywhere able to start conversations, with comfort and ease. To get comfortable, you have to be first be uncomfortable.

Good work dude, it's such a good feeling when you realize you made their day hey?