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PostPosted: Tue May 21, 2013 7:29 pm 
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Hey guys this is by good looking loser explaining sometimes the girl is not sexually available, so is better just to move on, instead of trying to "game them". This is not to be used as an excuse. I have gotten multiple girls in all of the circumstances in the example. But sometimes things are not happening not cause you did anything wrong or your lack of game, but due to the fact that the girl is just no sexually available. In my experience the biggest factor is "A boyfriend", and please don't come to me with the silliness of bf destroyers, god!...Some women even if they have a bf will hang out and waste the cool guy time, specially at the club. Now married, different story, more likely dtf, but that is another subject. Anyways, again this is not to be use as an excuse.

This is by goodlookingloser:
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Sexually Available vs. Sexually Unavailable Girls

The first thing I’d like you to understand is- NOT EVERY GIRL IS SEXUALLY AVAILABLE.
For some reason, even the “best” gurus don’t touch on this concept of sexually availability too much. The very worst “gurus” think that even single girl is able to fuck, every second of the day and if you don’t “get her” it’s something you did incorrectly. They insist there’s a certain “boyfriend destroyer” line that will make ever girl’s pussy dip with warm, sweet vaginal fluid because you said your line. It’s obviously not true.
In short, on any given day there’s a certain amount of girls that are sexually available (to be picked up) and a certain amount of that ARE NOT. Regardless of what you or I do, we cannot get the girls that ARE NOT available. There’s an infinite amount of potential reasons that a girl maybe be sexually unavailable for you or I.
Here are some reasons-1.She has a boyfriend.
2.She has a husband.
3.She has a lesbian lover.
4.She got drunk last night and she’s hungover, not looking to talk to new people.
5.She is super emotional today.
6.She already has a fuckbuddy.
7.She already has 10 fuckbuddies.
8.She doesn’t EVER have fuckbuddies.
9.She is a super conservative girl that doesn’t have sex without being married for 4 years.
10.She already got fucked that day by a thick cock.
11.She had a bad experience from the last guy that picked her up.
12.Her friends are there and they will judge her.
13.She has to wake up early in the morning. (logistics)
14. She has to go home early that night.
15.She is on her period.
16.She thinks she is on her period.
17.She thinks she is pregnant.
18.She doesn’t have casual sex.
19.She is a drug addict.
20.She didn’t take her anti-depression medicine (welcome to Los Angeles).
21.She is just out for attention.
22.You look like her ex-boyfriend that she hates.
23.She doesn’t think it’s appropriate to meet people at _____.
24.She doesn’t like players, she only likes nice guys and fucks them after 10 dates.
25.She doesn’t think she looks good.
26.She’s just a fucking weirdo at all times.
27.She heard a story from a friend that makes her hate guys for a week or two.
28.She’s obsessed with some other guy.
29.She’s obsessed with her ex-boyfriend.
30.She wants a boyfriend.
31.She doesn’t know what the fuck she wants.
32.She had a bad day.
33.She’s scared of guys at bars.
34.She’s scared of guys at clubs.
35.She’s scared of guys that talk to her during the day.
36.She doesn’t know how to show guys that she’s DTF.

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PostPosted: Sun May 26, 2013 3:38 pm 
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And that list could go on and on forever...

Basically there are still people around that claim that there is a way to get EVERY woman you want and there are still guys around who believe this. Whenever I hear or read that kind of claim my toenails curl up. It´s usually a sales pitch, the lamest of them all...

Doesn´t mean we shouldn´t approach all the girls we like, but what successful nightgame boils down to is identifying the girls that one has a realistic shot with. I believe it was you who pointed out the importance of this in a post once (or probably more then once). And then be bold and sexy and escalate. And I have found out more and more that the dancefloor is the perfect place for that, a concept that nobody champions as much as you do. I can tell from personal experience that you are extremely right about that.

But back to the original point: Some women you can´t have. The reasons for that are infinite and who really cares for the reasons. No amount of game will change anything about that. Others you can have and focusing ones attention on the reasons why you can have them is more promising, because once you know what worked for you, you can work on getting even better at it.


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PostPosted: Sun May 26, 2013 3:51 pm 
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And that list could go on and on forever...

Basically there are still people around that claim that there is a way to get EVERY woman you want and there are still guys around who believe this. Whenever I hear or read that kind of claim my toenails curl up. It´s usually a sales pitch, the lamest of them all...

Doesn´t mean we shouldn´t approach all the girls we like, but what successful nightgame boils down to is identifying the girls that one has a realistic shot with. I believe it was you who pointed out the importance of this in a post once (or probably more then once). And then be bold and sexy and escalate. And I have found out more and more that the dancefloor is the perfect place for that, a concept that nobody champions as much as you do. I can tell from personal experience that you are extremely right about that.

But back to the original point: Some women you can´t have. The reasons for that are infinite and who really cares for the reasons. No amount of game will change anything about that. Others you can have and focusing ones attention on the reasons why you can have them is more promising, because once you know what worked for you, you can work on getting even better at it.

^ Yes, excellent! I keep saying the most important skill set specially in night game is screening, and no wasting time... Good job dude! You get it..

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PostPosted: Mon May 27, 2013 10:55 am 
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Even if a woman is not "sexual available" (as you put it) you can make her want to sleep with you. Exceptions are lesbians, women who have no sexual drive at all or women who are sexually disabled. Apart from that you can have every women you see! I think some of the points mentioned on the list just make no sense e.g. "She doesn't know what she wants" (31) or "She doesn't think she looks good" (25). Women never know what they want especially when it comes to guys. If you ask a woman what kind of guy she prefers she'll give you a description of a nice guy. In reality she'll prefer the asshole. If they don't know what they want then it's your job to convince them. Convince them that you're the real deal.
I think it's also a question of time. As I said you can basically have all women you see BUT you have to invest some time. Sometimes more, sometimes less. The question is: Are you willing to invest your time? In some cases you will have to wait a long fucking time for something to happen.
I personally wouldn't be willing to "waste" my time on girls like this.

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PostPosted: Mon May 27, 2013 4:20 pm 
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Even if a woman is not "sexual available" (as you put it) you can make her want to sleep with you. Exceptions are lesbians, women who have no sexual drive at all or women who are sexually disabled. Apart from that you can have every women you see! I think some of the points mentioned on the list just make no sense e.g. "She doesn't know what she wants" (31) or "She doesn't think she looks good" (25). Women never know what they want especially when it comes to guys. If you ask a woman what kind of guy she prefers she'll give you a description of a nice guy. In reality she'll prefer the asshole. If they don't know what they want then it's your job to convince them. Convince them that you're the real deal.
I think it's also a question of time. As I said you can basically have all women you see BUT you have to invest some time. Sometimes more, sometimes less. The question is: Are you willing to invest your time? In some cases you will have to wait a long fucking time for something to happen.
I personally wouldn't be willing to "waste" my time on girls like this.

did you read this part:
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This is not to be used as an excuse. I have gotten multiple girls in all of the circumstances in the example. But sometimes things are not happening not cause you did anything wrong or your lack of game, but due to the fact that the girl is just no sexually available.

31.- she does not know what she wants.

Is basically saying she made up her mind, she is not gonna fuck that night.

^ no amount of "game" will make her want to fuck you, if she made up her mind that she is not gonna fuck that night.

25.- She does not think she looks good.

Maybe she did not shave.

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PostPosted: Mon May 27, 2013 10:47 pm 
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Yep, nice posts skills and picun.

Youngboy88, in some respects, I agree. Maybe not every girl you see, but most girls you see you probably could get eventually with enough comfort and attraction building and persistence (and possibly a certain amount of alcohol if you were really desperate - kidding!). BUT the thing is, that could take months to get some girls and even then some girls you never will get.

What's the point when you could be sleeping with equally good if not better girls in a matter of minutes? Not only does filtering or screening make more sense from a getting-laid-quicker point of view, but getting laid with other girls will probably do more for your chances with that awkward girl than months of trying to get her ever could do.


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