The Friend Zone Vs The Jerk Zone



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PostPosted: Sun May 19, 2013 11:46 am 
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Over the years I have seen a pattern with a lot of AFCs who just started applying PUA in their lives.
These guys were previously getting friend zoned all the time by girls. A lot of popular PUAs preached the "Don't be Mr. Nice Guy" and emphasized on this particular aspect very strongly.....perhaps a bit too strongly. I say this because I have seen a lot of these new 'AFCs turned PUAs' got rejected regularly because they were getting "Jerk Zoned".

Most of these AFCs had spent all their time chasing the women in their past and after being exposed to PUA, they decided that since being NICE has gotten them nowhere, they must be the exact opposite of Mr. Nice Guy. Well the problem is the opposite of Mr. NICE is Mr. JERK.

They may differ in terms of personality, but they do share one thing in common....They both get rejected in the end by women.

I think some of the so called PUA Gurus need to elaborate on drawing the line when using C&Fs, Negging etc...Too many times I have seen guys approaching, getting a chicks number, going on a date and then suddenly getting dropped like a bad habit.


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PostPosted: Sun May 19, 2013 8:14 pm 
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Over the years I have seen a pattern with a lot of AFCs who just started applying PUA in their lives.
These guys were previously getting friend zoned all the time by girls. A lot of popular PUAs preached the "Don't be Mr. Nice Guy" and emphasized on this particular aspect very strongly.....perhaps a bit too strongly. I say this because I have seen a lot of these new 'AFCs turned PUAs' got rejected regularly because they were getting "Jerk Zoned".

Most of these AFCs had spent all their time chasing the women in their past and after being exposed to PUA, they decided that since being NICE has gotten them nowhere, they must be the exact opposite of Mr. Nice Guy. Well the problem is the opposite of Mr. NICE is Mr. JERK.

They may differ in terms of personality, but they do share one thing in common....They both get rejected in the end by women.

I think some of the so called PUA Gurus need to elaborate on drawing the line when using C&Fs, Negging etc...Too many times I have seen guys approaching, getting a chicks number, going on a date and then suddenly getting dropped like a bad habit.
It's just learning to tell when people are fucking with you and trying to bust your balls... You don't have to always be a dick. Just always be able to defend yourself in a socially acceptable manner instead of turning into a little bitch about it.


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PostPosted: Sun May 19, 2013 9:28 pm 
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Well you see, PUA is a long way of personal development. Nobody gets all the things right the first time.

Those AFC's get ''Jerk zoned'' but they will learn from it on their own in the end.


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