So there was this girl I was hanging out with, we've k-closed before. Now, she is very traditional and just recently she handed me the LJBF card. I was wondering whether LJBF is a shit-test for an LTR, which at this point I wouldn't mind? Have any of you experienced this?

I do not mean to say this boastfully, but to provide some context.
I have DHV value beyond my own belief, to the point where I'm walking around campus with her and I'll see at least 5-8 girls and guys that come up to me and say hi and try for convo in a 10 minute span of walking. She even calls me "Hollywood" as a neg for knowing so many people to which I just smile, or say something C+F. I work several DHV jobs (trainer, DJ, campus job with the Dean's office). I have a 9.1 Hot or Not rating, and use kino all the time. My problem is that many girls are so easily gamed because of the balance I've achieved in life. And, I am very very picky, so it's not even like I can move on that quickly. She's a model. Could she just not be attracted?

I had a girl tell me LJBF, then 2 days later I was making out with her and in a long relationship with her.

It CAN be LMR, CAN be a shit test for a LTR, or she might not be interested.

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It's a bad case of one-itis, I know. But, in the last week I've been sarging 3 nights, number closed 10 times, k-closed 3 times, and have 2 dates set for this week. And, I've called up past hookups to re-establish contact for the upcoming weekend. Nothing seems to keep me occupied like her.

How did you manage that if you don't mind me asking?

My next straw was to freeze her out until she got in touch with me. Arrange a meet up and then drop the nuke. I was planning on saying, "What would you say if I asked you out right now."

If she says, "I thought you said we should just be friends." (I dropped LJBF on her before she mentioned to me by having info from a friend of mine and she agreed)

I'm going to follow with, "Hey, I never said I was, I've just been thinking and I figured I won't be able to do that, look at you, I thought we connected on a level higher than friends and anything less would be a step down. And, while I told you earlier I wasn't really looking for anything serious right now, I thought about it again, and realized I want to try and go steady.

If she says yes, then I am fine with entering into a LTR.
If she says no, she's not attracted to me anymore, I move on and re-game in the future when she comes crawling back, meanwhile gaming other chicks.
If she says no, I don't really see you that way anymore (I think she has been seeing her ex which is causing a lot of confusion for her), I move on, put her on the back burner, use some BF Destroyers and NLP and experience other women in the meantime.

How did your personal experience go, was it anything similar?

I would'nt go with that speech if i was you. I know from experience that doing things this way doesn't help. Just amp up her attraction in you and see what happens. Remember you cant try to convince them with logic. Just carry on like the LJBF did'nt happen and stay playful with her and just have fun. With some women if you dont f-close them as soon as they would have liked they lose intrest, just like some dont like things to happen to fast. Not all women are the same. Its a complicated buisness.

Ah if you want let her know you would like to have a LTR, dont directly say it to her, but drop hints about it, when it fits the conversation. Things like 'i just need someone i can be happy with' 'trust because what is a relationship without trust' 'you never know that girl over there could be my future wife' 'i'd need a GF i can feel comftable with'

But obviously dont over do it so she thinks your only saying this because of her. Like any LJBF you got to use jelously, but maybe not too much on this one.

Any tips to amp up the attraction?

In the week this has happened, I have been out with other girls, met other girls, and she knows this through pictures online and because of how social I am. And I usually go out without guys, just girls. She has seen me in public with other girls, which has to be hitting her pre-selection switches. I got a new job as a personal trainer.

Everytime I see her there's a kiss on the cheek and a hug, I touch the arm spots playfully in convo which is quick because I'm busy, usually neg her about her hair (hot girls are very self-conscious) by fixing a strand or something. If I'm walking with her I will almost always touch the lower back. I always gear conversations to my friends and their sexual experiences which ends up getting into our own so it doesn't seem creepy. We talk almost as equally about the sex and men and women after I frame it.

More attraction amps, switches?

Im not sure about talking about past experiences and ex-girlfriends. Its useually just something i talk about with friends. If thats what you said?
DHV, personality traits. Show you are not needy and that you have options. keep her on her toes and dont let her know she has you, People want what they cant have,so make her think that you are still deciding whether she is worthy of your time and energy. If you can make a woman feel she is the one who has to prove herself to you, then you are setting the frame.

Thanks for the advice guys.

She's back with her boyfriend, hence her being unsure of me.
I don't do breakups unless the boyfriend is abusive either mentally or physically. They have a good thing going and broke up because of distance only originally.

Ah, a missed oppurtunity for a faithful, hot, smart girl. Back to pick up it is...