Yeh!

Long story short - she works at my work, in my eyes HB9 and I'm after her for GF material, that's my end result with this one.

Gamed her april last year, over the course of three months, won, we had good sex, exchanged numbers etc she fucked off travelling for half a year (knew it was happening) I broke contact, she assumed I was after 1 night thing, she met someone came home, came back to work, I continued to game her (her BF is not my responsibility) she was still very receptive and keen, we ended up sleeping together, she told her then BF, we had numerous talks - wheres this going etc.

We tried to ignore it- I laid the game off for a while, then reignited it last couple of months, we went out a while back with work and ended up sleeping together, she broke it off with her BF, she wants to be with me but now her head is "a real mess" and she "needs time alone to think"

She's asked so many IOI questions like
"would you have me in your life?"
"i'm worried you'll get bored of me"

She's such a great great girl.

Now this time alone thing - how do I play this? at the moment I'm doing it hardball and i've said "i'm going to crack on with my life for a few weeks cause you obviously need time" the other night she asked me to meet her but I said "no, I don't think it's a good idea" and played it that way. We didn't meet.

What are the next steps? Do I continue the dropped contact? ignore her? Or do I play it alpha and go the other way "this is what we are gonna do etc"

i'm literally at the edge of winning what I belive to be a girl I'd want to let into my life and spend it with - but I feel if I play it wrongly here it's game over.

A big issue is her friends filling her head with shit saying she's dropped her really lovely BF for me (whom they don't know) but i'm obviously seen as the bad guy.

Many many thanks for your help friends.

You say you want her to be your gf right? If reading it well your continually push-pulling her why do you keep doing it if you already got her hooked. It seems that your messing her up as said by you that her head is a mess. I think the best to do is being alpha and make it clear what your intentions are and still not comming of too needy as if you want it too hard. Push-pull works greatly but from experience I learned that by doing so to much you can mess up the girl really hard.

Leave a girl, better or the same as she was before you met. That's one of the key rules of pua. But if im reading this, it's resulting in that.

My tip: Be alpha lead her to where you want. Tell her your intentions, Be alpha and gf-close if that's your goal.

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Icy