So I've been having fun with this girl since a little before New Years. She lives in NYC and I don't. I visit somewhat often because I have family in the city and she's friends with my brother and his friends. Whenever I visit the city we hook up and she seems to treat it like we're together whenever I'm around. I don't want to take the relationship any further because I'm not moving to NYC until September so there isn't really any point in jumping into anything before then.

Right now I'm in NYC because I filled in as a drummer for my brothers band. However, usually when I come into town my brother mentions to her that I'm gonna be here. This time she had no clue and didn't know until I called her the day of our show (Which is my fault). She said she was coming to the show but she was meeting up with friends later that night. (Yesterday)

We hung out after the show but I had some friends come that I hadn't seen in a few years so I didn't give her the attention I usually I do, although, some of her friends were there too so it wasn't like she was being left out. There was distance between us physically and mentally. Once she left our group I asked her to let me know if she wanted to hang out once she left her friends. She said she would let me know and see if we were still out.

She ended up texting my brother to see where we were. (We went back to his place.) then I texted her to see how her night went and she never responded.

Just seeing what my next move should be. I'm leaving either tonight or tomorrow depending on if we hang out.

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Peace and Love,

Vic

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