Should sex be more of a reward for hardwork and sacrifice? Or should sex be a way to escape life's stresses, a comfort so to say?

Sex is certainly a great comfort, but women want someone like Charlie sheen used to say who "is winning." Or like a true con man can portray that they are winning. Its not clear how much of it is about actually having value, demonstrating value, or simply convey value whether you have it or not.

I just don't see someone that is frustrated, needy, or unhappy pulling women, but I think loneliness and dissatisfaction with your life is a common reason why men pursue women. Somewhat like a validation and an escape. Now in my last post I mentioned the unviersal alpha male...the model man. As society becomes comfortable less and less traditional roles men become more comfortable with being emotional and needy.

When you approach women you got to know you deserve for them to "chose you." You have to know this. And if you are coming from a place of despair its going to be all over your body language and subconscious conversation that your not preselected.

Get a woman to have fun with, not a woman to make you happy.

1. Sex should be both.

2. All about demonstrating and conveying value doesn't matter if you have it.

3. You are describing some not all men here. Your theory could quite possible be true.

4. Mate there the same thing, or at least define "have fun with" and "happy".

Are you a woman? do you write poetry?

Why did you ask me if I write poetry???

I think having fun is something you do just to enjoy the moment.

I think finding someone to make you happy is osmething you do to make you feel better about yourself and life because you are unhappy.

Yeah but why not have both?

So whens you're next poem bro?

U mad bro?

Stop that shit, nothing good will come out of that.

Getting laid is a NEED. Not a liberation, not a stress decrease factor, nor a happy program.

It`s a need we all humans have and share; so whether you feel alpha about it or not, you show value or not, you are getting laid.

Main reason that proves my point is the oldest profession of all human kind.

Uh oh you've lost your coherence. Wtf bro? Sort it out. Stop telling people how to experience sex.