Okay so I am back in the game and super amped because I know this is where I really belong. So I am just asking for some quick tips and advice on a few things to help get me polished up.

First is on style and appearance

I'm kind of a country boy so I like to convey that but I don't over do it so I can blend in in any social setting basically I always wear a ball cap that is tacky but you really got to being paying attention to notice it and its a good conversation piece. Usually wear a plain shirt sometimes multicolored but usually solid and I make sure that it accentuates my shoulders. A necklace that I made myself out of things I gathered while hunting (and I gotta say it's bad ass people try to buy it all the time) which is also a good convo starter and because of the things its made from I am able to show that I am a risk taker and able to handle myself in crazy situations and that I am creative. Usually I just wear cargo pants because they are practical, comfortable, and they just go with damn near anything and you can wear them damn near any where.
Also I've put on some pounds but I'm still pretty confident because I kind of intimidate other men but irregardless I'm about to jump on p90x. Huge Jackman's Build is my goal.

Now on methods

I have forgotten most of the acronyms and terminology so bare with me. I'll pick it back up.
Mostly I have been doing the online thing and it yields some results mostly just text. However I was seeing and fooled around with one girl for awhile but never fclosed on her (we just broke up and that's why I'm here). If there are any threads to online dating methods please let me know. My profile lays heavily on satire and humor I get compliments all the time for it so I think it is solid. The problem is that its mostly from 1's to 5's. And I just can't accommodate them very well. But I do need practice so I'm willing to sharpen up on them. I can usually keep my shit together for awhile with 6's but I have problems with 7's and up. I need more tips on how to move forward and keep things progressing beyond text because this is usually where I get hung up.
As far as going out, my city is amazing there are three main scenes that I know of and freaking wall to wall HB's. I'm going to start taking dancing lessons because girls here love to dance (does dancing really even matter all that much?) I've never really been into going out but I have suddenly found it a lot of fun and the club scene and the internet are going to have to be my proving grounds until I get my game back down and these are the areas that I need help with the most right now.

So please any tips critiques or comments will be greatly appreciated