Hey guys, I was out the other night in a club gaming a few girls and I got annoyed when the group I was gaming kept leaving. I'll give an example:

1. Opened to a group, was having fun with them all. Started dancing with a fit german girl, lots of kino but nothing really past holding hands and waist. Then eventually after about 15 mins of dancing, she said her mates wanted to leave. So I was like okay, blah blah blah see ya around not really saying much ... and never saw her again. We had such a good connection it was like a guaranteed pull. I just didn't find opportunity to get a kiss close. maybe I should have kino escalated?

2. with this group of 3 Brazilians, 2 seemed interested the other was clearly not although friendly, after opening and talking with eye contact they eventually said they were going for fresh air and left.. did see them around again though only spoke briefly.

Basically, what did I do wrong to cause them to leave? should I have focussed more attention on winning the group over or did I need to escalate more vigorously? At the time it just didn't seem we had enough connection and interest to go in for a K-close so I kept on chatting/dancing. This was in a club environment btw

Please help lol

Please take this advice lightly, as I really don't like gaming in a night club as it seems far too hit or miss if you are just looking for sex, which I get the impression you are.

I never try and Kiss close in a club. Unless there is a really powerful attraction between you and a girl, it just seems tacky. I will only ever number close and then send them a familiarity message straight away. The best way I find to do this is to be heavy in the middle of Kino and then suddenly tell her you need to go but hand her your phone as you leave and say 'just give me your number, I will catch up with you later'

By doing this, if she leaves the club, you still have her number and you can build rapport better than just shouting in her face in a loud club. You are not putting too much pressure on a girl to Kiss you and also you will have her interested. She will wonder why you are leaving her when things are just starting to heat up. In regards to the message, if she responds positively then message her later and say you are in the smoking area or whatever and she should join you.

If she is gone, call her the next day.