Yeah, we all know'm and we all have'm. But when you really think about and be honest to yourself, you have no reason to make up excuses.
I had an epiphany yesterday, there was a question asked by Daygame.com on Facebook;
''What is one of the main reasons you either aren't approaching, or not approaching as often as you would like (besides approach anxiety/not knowing what to say)?''
I was just about to type in the first comment, however then I thought to myself that it wasn't really necessary because I already knew the answer. My comment would've been; ''Because I am broke, I still live at home. Even though I am moving out within a couple months I can't pull girls back home anyway.''
But then I thought of a solution, I'm going to go out to do some Daygame anyway and collect a bunch of numbers, make them as solid as possible of course. Next week I get paid anyway, so I can at least get a coffee on an instant date. So I can still fulfill my 'sarge-needs' even though I am broke, that's one excuses deleted.
Living at my mothers place sucks! The main reason being no matter how 'charming' and 'funny' you can portray yourself, living at home with mamma just doesn't come off as sexy to me. It doesn't suit me when I go out and Game. However, I'd just have to swallow my pride sometimes and just tell'm, be genuine and congruent and all that other bollocks. Then just think of a good method; how-to-go-to-her-place-instead-of-yours-game. If I would be able to master something like that Gaming would be a whole lot easier.
Point being, I shouldn't make up excuses, they are just so useless and you don't get anything done. Having an excuses is not only disappointing to myself but it's such a useless hinder.
I have these moments all the time where I know the answer but ask it anyway, I should just take action, simple as that. And if you know what to do there is no need to learn more theory work on Pickup or spend hundreds and hundreds of pounds and/or dollars for coaching and workshops.
No offence to the trainers around the world of course, all of them are amazing. Just saying; if you know what to do, do it. You don't need permission.
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