at a house party this task proves difficult especially when a natural amog is there. this person is loud and naturaly the center of attention in the room. now this person is my friend so i dont want to cock block or destroy him or anything, but jesus he leaves very little room for anyone else to grab the rooms attention. when hes not in the room the center of attention immediately switches to me so i know i'm next in line but i would rather be sharing it all the time type thing.remember this is at a house party which differs from a club where u make ur own little sub groups, house parties r very open.

plz hook me up with some input.

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I've got a mate who demands (not commands) attention when we're out. He likes to carry on and make noise.

Theres a scene in mind,body and kickasss moves where a master level Karatake shows his power skill in unnerving an oponent. It is a very subtle form of body gesturing that totally blows ppls minds. They're not sure whether to run and hide, shake your hand or just melt like putty under the force of your attention.. anyway if someones stealing the show, I turn on this body language that begins as an attitude or simple statement of my will and then everyones kind of asking me whether its ok or not.

In short, I take the power back into the moment and fill my presence with it so that people silently wonder wtf. Then a lil vauge intention as to my desired outcome, and the pieces fall into place.

The fact that he is the center of the attention is not necessarily a good thing. And it may in-fact work to your advantage. I would part-take in a lot of side-gaming. . . Though he may be the main attraction, you can still open the girls that aren't actively interacting with him.

Feed off his energy and use it as an opener to others around you. (i.e. "Wow, he can be a real handful sometimes.)

Like these two guys are pointing out, just because someone is the "center of attention" doesn't mean that they are the real "leader" or "alpha male" of the group. It could be a whole facade. Overcompensation. Whatever you want to call it. Which means, your door is wide open to take control.

Tylermog him!

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