So I have been trying to decide about whether I'm gaming a girl from work or not and we get a lot of coffee together, and the mood levels float up and down between flirting, fun and sometimes just uninterested.

Anyway today she was heading across the street to go shopping real quick and I needed something over there, and the beginning started great I was so on my game, confident, telling jokes, took the lead, and then somewhere I just lost it all, got real choked up, lost confidence and the sense of humor and just fuckin got real stiff and.. I mean I don't think I looked petrified but I went from AMOG to a huge AFC in my inner game/confidence.

Feels good to get that off the chest. I think I'm throwing her on a pedestal by getting nervous

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Welcome to the forum Bronco.

Yeah, it sounds like you're putting her on a pedestool, BUT you at least have something going for you. You have times that you're frame is good. That's what you need to work on. Start from there and build that up. She'll notice a difference, along with every other girl you interact with.

Thank you. Whether or not this works out with her, I'm looking forward to upping my game and learning from the people here