The power of interest is that when you interested indoing something you keep doing no matter how hard it gets. This could be school, sports, music...anything. When you have an interest, a strong interest you keep pursuing it no matter the cost that has to be paid to do it, no matter how much work.

Attraction is a superficial interest. It is something that you will get bored with or its something that will eventually fade.Men's interest in women is usually purely physical and its usually because of sex drive or pride. Then guys try to force a connection based on sex drive and pride when the women is totally not interested in that. Or guys try to make a connection based on sex and pride when they don't have the physical attractiveness or status to attract that way.

They way to build a relationship is on common interest. Find something you are strongly interested in. Then meet someone that is also strongyl interested in that as well. Then that will bring you together, maybe forever. Simple shit.

Passion is key bro. Men and women will always have different interests. (example... I'm sure you don't like talking about shopping for shoes and shit... Nor do women care about what happened with the Bears game last Sunday. Get what I'm saying?) The thing women love is a man who is passionate about everything in his life. Have your own interests and your own life and make women FEEL that they can either be a part of your life and take interest in what you are doing or they can get the fuck out lol

I feel you. I eventually got bored of sexual attraction. Ever since, personality is what I'm looking for in a woman. The thing is, personality is a very rare thing to find in one. The search goes on, I suppose.