1) What does it mean to be a man? What does it mean to be a woman? And how are they different?
I'm of the belief that most of the adult males and females of today are confused as to how they are supposed to behave. And I believe one of the major causes of this is the concept of EQUALITY.
Now, as you know the concept of equality suggests men and women are EQUAL. Here the dictionary's definition:
e·qual·i·ty
1. The state of being equal, esp. in status, rights, and opportunities.
2. The condition of being equal in number or amount.
Now, for men and women to have equality they must be equal and to be equal men and women must be THE SAME.
So, ask yourself, are men and women the same? Of course not!
If man = 1, how then can woman = 1? And if man = 1 and woman = 2 how can they have the same VALUE?
It's just not possible.
Are there any Christians (or at least brought up Christians) reading this? (FYI: I'm not a Christian BUT I do believe in God and the Bible...strangely and ironically Christians believe in NEITHER....it's a long story and off topic).
Anyway, there are two sources that I know of (post if you know more on this subject) that speculate the first human being ever created. One of them is the Bible (and Torah) and the second is the works of Greek philosopher Aristotle. Both state it was an hermaphrodite and in both sources the hermaphrodites have the consciousness of the MALE (or masculine) NOT the female (feminine)...bare in mind hermaphrodites are both male and female...keep note of this. Also, both describe the relationship between men and women.
Both sources state that the being was eventually split into TWO, but NOT half. Or more precisely, the women was created out of the man...NOT visa-versa.
The way I interpret it is a woman is 1/3 of a man.
Think about it, the average woman is physically SHORTER than the average man, the average woman is physically SMALLER than the average man, the average woman is LIGHTER than the average man, the average woman is physically WEAKER than the average man, I also believe some organs and other internal things are bigger for males too etc, etc...(perhaps someone more qualified in biology can clarify).
Ultimately, both sources state women are SUBJECT to men...and this is TRUE, I see it now...I see it EVERYWHERE....much more than I used to, but let's get a better grasp of this.
MALES
Males are beings with a penis (assuming it's human), they are better described in the dictionary as:
"an individual that produces small usually motile gametes (as spermatozoa or spermatozoids) which fertilize the eggs of a female. In the case of humans, they are born as boys and grow up to become men (at least physically).
As far as I'm concerned (I'm not an expert on this) ALL males are born neutral (having neither masculine nor feminine traits) UNTIL they reach puberty. Then MOST adult males (noticeably NOT all adult males) portray PREDOMINANTLY masculine traits.
FEMALE
Females are beings with a vagina (assuming it's human), they are described in the dictionary as:
"of, relating to, or being the sex that bears young or produces eggs. In the case of humans, they are born as girls and grow up to become women (at least physically).
Again, as far as I'm concerned, ALL females are born neutral (having neither masculine nor feminine traits) UNTIL they reach puberty. Then MOST adult females (again noticeably NOT all adult females) portray PREDOMINANTLY feminine traits.
Now, here we get to the problem. The physical aspects of males and females are automatic, we need not concern ourselves with those, it's the MENTAL SIDE (the masculine and the feminine) that concerns me. In society today, I see many men portraying TOO MANY feminine traits and I see many women portraying TOO MANY masculine traits, basically the genders roles are becoming all mixed and scrambled up...this will NOT be good for the human race down the line...as we are going against NATURE.
So, how about you? Here is a list of masculine and feminine traits (the first five are by Otto Weininger) the rest are just inputs from
this blog. Compare these to yourself and any girl you're seeing:
NOTE: Bare in mind this is THE FIRST TIME I have seen this...and it FITS ALMOST EXACTLY to my experience with women and my guide to natural sex (this applies to HOT women ONLY).
Characters----------Masculine*--Feminine*
Principles
Activity------------Active------Passive
Consciousness------Conscious---Unconscious
Thinking-----------Objective----Subjective
Genius-------------Yes--------No
Productivity---------Productive--Nonproductive
Energy-------------Generative---Receptive
Mind--------------Thinking----Feeling
Emotion------------Stoic------Moody
Weather------------Calm------Unsettled
Temperature--------Cold-------Warm
Pain---------------Inflict-----Receive
Confrontation-------Forward----Withdrawal
Reaction-----------Contemplative----Reactive
Style--------------Deliberative---Unthinking
Intensity-----------Concentration----Distraction
Denial style---------Projection----Fantasy
Egotism style-------Narcissism---Histrionic
Pathology----------Sociopath----Borderline
Defense-----------Anger--------Denial
Ego desire---------Expansion----Dissolution
Reliance-----------Self---------Others
Compassion--------Little--------Great
Wakefulness--------Aware-------Unaware
Alertness-----------Wide Awake---Sleepwalking
Planning-----------Methodical----Conspiring
Morality------------Strict-------Contingent
Aggression---------Physical------Subterfuge
Violence------------External------Internal
Warfare-------------Bully--------Victim
Hierarchy-----------Dominant-----Submissive
Force--------------Blunt---------Subtle
Texture------------Harsh--------Smooth
Resistance----------Extreme------Yielding
Linear--------------Straight------Jagged
Presentation---------Forthright----Devious
Surface-------------Clear--------Opaque
Understand----------Simple------Complicated
Logic---------------Linear------Circular
Movement-----------Stiff--------Flowing
Grain---------------Coarse------Fine
Instrument-----------Blunt-------Subtle
Transport------------Highway----Stream
Route---------------A to B------Roundabout
Tour----------------Autobahn----Scenic route
Flight---------------Soar--------Flutter
Hobby--------------Monomania---Dilettante
Truths--------------Multiple-----Singular
Theory--------------Branching----Obsessive
Fact----------------Durable------Momentary
Manichean-----------Yes---------Grey Area
Systematics----------Categorizing---Noncategorizing
Science--------------Empirical-----Intuitive
Philosophy-----------Tough--------Dream State
Ubermensch----------More common---Less common
Body----------------Hard---------Soft
Tissue---------------Sinewy-------Fatty
I don't know how accurate all of these are...but....
In my experience MOST are true...even though there are many different attractive women and every man has his tastes, but in my experience the more feminine traits a female has (especially the KEY ones...I'll point these out later) the more HOT she is. In fact I believe the HOTTEST females (I call them WOMEN) always seem to have PREDOMINANTLY feminine traits. And it is the case visa-versa with MALES also (I call them MEN)...
From now on, refer to this chart to get a better understanding of what I'm saying....
I've noticed in the past in many cultures (though in some cultures they still do this), when a young male reached puberty he would be taken by his father and/or with other men and he would go thorough some trial...at the end of this trial he would be proclaimed as a man.
Unfortunately, this hardly happens anymore (particularly in the western world). And I believe as a result many adult males don't know how to behave like men....this leads to unhealthy things.
I believe this is the cause for most criminals and murderers...basically, dysfunctional people. Just about every case I have researched on serial killers or the like, you'll always find the man has had a poor upbringing.
His father wasn't around, or he was abused by his father...his father abused his mother....or his father was submissive to his mother....
It is my belief that whether a person grows up to become functional or dysfunctional it is ALMOST ALWAYS down to how a MALE behaves. i.e. Either said person's father or the father of the mother (assuming it's a single mother) has bought the child up.
The more masculine a male becomes the more STABLE he becomes. The more stable he becomes, the more his life AND THOSE AROUND HIM will IMPROVE.
Fortunately for females, mothers are pretty much always around...however, unfortunately many females are becoming contaminated with a poison.
Can you guess what it is? You guessed right. Feminism.
What is Feminism? Feminism is the idea, that women should behave and be treated like MEN...It is my belief that feminism came from females who were brought up as the only daughter in a family of sons'. They were basically brought up around mostly boys and behaved like one, they physically challenged boys, competed with them and had the same rights (at least in the family) ...until they grow up and start developing hormones and then their ultimate realisation. They are not male, and are RIGHTLY not treated like one because they have a pussy ...and this HURTS.
Feminism was also caused by the MALE, because how a person is brought up is dependent on the family and since the male is the HEAD of the household (family) he is responsible for ALL family breakdown.
It is VITAL to the human race that the MAN is reborn in ALL OF US...once men RETURN order will be RESTORED.
Females are PREDOMINATELY feminine by nature, so they are REACTIONARY (refer to chart above). They are the EFFECT NOT the cause.
They will always react to what MEN do. They were created to SUPPORT US...in the book of Genesis God creates Eve because Adam is lonely....Eve was created FOR Adam. Women were NOT created for their own purposes...regardless of what anyone tells you.
Once males start to behave like MEN, females INEVITABLY will REACT (almost like a mechanism) and behave like WOMEN.
Fortunately, for us males, a MAN CAN bring the woman out of a female, however, a woman CANNOT bring the man out of a male...