keep in mind were both 19
i see this hb9 i knew like 6 years ago, (she was just picking her drunk friend up from this party) so i didnt have much time to catch up, so i figure ill never see her again if i didnt pursue it there. i tell her we need to catch up and we exchanged numbers. she texts me a couple days later to see wat im doing for the night. i invite her to this party and she says she'll go and i dont hear from her again that night. so i figure shes not interested. but then every so often the hb8 texts me or hits me up on myspace saying she wants to chill but never comes through even tho its always her who texts me first. on her myspace it looks like shes with this guy in a lot of the pics so i think she has a man. maybe she thinks im trying to get with her so she flakes out coming to the parties.. i dont want to burn a bridge with her because she has hot friends. any suggestions on how to get her to feel relaxed with me and come out and party so i can pull game in person on her or her friends?

Welcome to the forum imposingillwill.

Make the one that is now the target into a pivot. Purposely LJBF her, and let her know that she is in your friend zone. Build comfort with her, not attraction. Then, game her friends and build attraction with them.

This is sound advice. . .Make sure she gets this implication when you are texting/myspace-ing (for lack of a better word) her. She should know she is "just a friend" before you meet each other to hang out.

And who knows? Maybe she will get jealous when you're picking up her friends. She might be more interested than you think!

tell her to bring her bf..