I was dating this girl for the last 3 months, was not official but it was calm and sweet. It was not an open relationship, we were not seeing other people. In the last month we grew apart, I see mostly because she was busy with graduation in university and work, but also cause she did not want to work up for the relation.

After like 3 weeks in this scenario she told me she couldn't meet up with me once again. And that a friend of her was drunk and needed her help cause he loved her and so on. I told her either she was trying to make me jealous what is not good or she was mean, cause I cannot accept she having time to a drunk dude but having no time for me.

We had a discussion, she phoned me and I was not receptive on the phone, I was not on the mood for excuses. She thought I was being sarcastic I was just quiet, there is a point where further discussion brings no good and I wanted to avoid it.

In a dumb move I exploded and said that she didn't like me but like the control over the situation, and this set up the whole house on fire. She got REALLY upset. I said her we needed to meet up personally and talk. She refused. We talked on msn about all this issues. she said I needed to have communicated more and so on. That I should have said I cared. But for now it was not like before.

I told her again we need to meet up and talk but she refused. For now I have her sending me SMS and msn messages. I don't like to ignore her. And I would like that if he worked out her issues we could be together but for now I'm tired and I see no point in seeing her. I cannot just jump from her bed to her friend spot.

What should I do? Do I just plain ignore her? Should I try to talk? I made clear I wanted to be with her again, and she haven't said no, but neither helped in anyway to improve the situation.

I'm tired of explaining the same fucking thing over and over again. It's over between you two. Just end it quietly and swiftly. Try this one:

"I'm a pickup artist. I'm glad you ended it, I get my freedom back. Catch ya around".

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I'm addicted to facing my fears.

Yeah I really don't see how there should be any questions you need answered. It's clearly over. Tell her that you don't want anything to do with her and move on.... kind of sucks but you will both be over it soon.