ok, so this hb8 likes me and is chatting me up on msn almost everynight. we have not yet talked in person and i almost never see her in school. but i number closed last week (shes been texting me a littl ebit btw) and she was supposed to hang out with me and some friends, and she agreed to bring a friend or 2 on the weekend but things just didnt work out. our schedules didnt match up.

she has a very tight schedule. she works everyday right after school until like 8:30 or 9. and she usually works half days on weekends. i want to ask her out again, but having not even met in person yet i dont think it should be a 1 on 1 date. now me n my friends cancelled our plans last weekend partially becuz she couldnt come but also becuz we stayed out too late partying so it didnt work.

should i tell her were going to be going snowboarding again this weekend? she knows i invited her the first time so i probably shouldnt ask her to come again. just casually bring it up? or should i just ask her out?

what do u guys recommend? thanks.

well im not really sure how much yall text and talk but i would use that as a stepping stone..start off with some good one line texts but dont always respond right back to her, make her wait a lil.

as for the hangin out, u need to make it seem like shes the one that missed out for it fallin through..try tellin her about something u did and saying well i would have invited u if..and make something up..based on how her personality is, u might even want to neg off this incident...
just something i would try..

good luck and keep us posted..

i guess i didnt mention it. we were supposed to go snowboarding. i did invite her and a friend or 2. but our schedules didnt work out. she had to work and had a family thing to tend to. and i ended up not going cuz me n my friends went to a party and stayed out too late.

she messages me on msn whenever shes online. almost every night. she just started texting me, cuz i was tryed calling her to tell her what time we were going boarding last week. but she missed my call.

so im not sure what to try now. shes giving me more and more ioi's. but i know how busy her work schedule is. and im not sure if i should ask her when shes gonna have some time off on the weekend or something.

should i keep going for the group date,, just like hanging out going boarding, or should i try for something one on one?

Figure out a time and date that you know she IS available, make plans with your buddies to do something (snowboarding, bowling, skating, . . . whatever), call her up and tell her you're having a "guys night out" and she's not invited. That will REALLY key her interest! She'll be wondering why not and try to convince YOU into letting her go!

~Cali

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well if i tell her were going snowboarding again. she'll probably assume shes invited again since it didnt work last time. but if i tell her were doing something else, shes not gonna invite herself. i know not everyone is like that. when friends tell me theyre doing something, i dont ask if i can go. i dont invite myself.

am i supposed to tease and tell her shes not invited? is that what u mean?

Now you're catching on!

~Cali

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ok....now i gotchya. ill try it