Many factors of game are an accumulation of small matters which ultimately increase the quality of every interaction you participate in. People often want the big killer move when its the small things in someone you notice that makes them great. Heres on of those small but important things.

Remembering a girls name. So simple we often dont even bother. But attention to details is something that can go a long ways. It took me years to realize how powerful just doing this one simple thing is. Its so important to me now I will stop mid sentence and confirm her name if i even think i've forgotten it. Its so important that right now writing this I can recall the names of girls over this weekend who blew me out. Girls who I talked to for only 30 seconds. Girls who i talked to 6 months months ago. My mind is literally a rolodex of women's names. Not because my memory is so good (its shit) but my brain see's this as so valuable it stores it as extremely useful information.

Okay now that i've rambled for five minutes about how I think remembering names is important ill say why I think it is. When I started to condition this habit I realized even girls who were not interested in me seemed to recognize the importance of remembering your name. Girls innately understand and are really good at remembering your name. Its just something they get. Try it 5 minutes after talking to a girl say "Your name is Katie, do you remember my name?" (Something i do every set) and 95% of the time they remember your name.

Remembering her name and using it often builds natural rapport. It establishes that you are no longer two strangers at a bar but two people who formally know one another. Its hard to explain... but when you know and use each others names shes less likely to just leave you standing there. Shes also less likely to ignore you and pay attention to some chode who comes in and starts talking to her. Shes more willing to invite you to meet her friends, get a drink, go dance, go to after party, go home with you, take you home, go get food together, go to another venue. You can see eachother as real people and not some interchangable strangers at a bar. Lastly its great because have you ever had a girl being distracted and you try to get her attention by saying some state pump or something? But she ignores it anyways. That happens MUCH less when you use her name in the mix because people are so conditioned to paying attention when their name is being called.

To sum this up. Remember and using names is important. It takes little effort, so do it and reap the rewards! Thanks for reading.

I came up with this as a mass txt and its the bomb.

"OMG i saw something in a store window i really wanted to get you... but then I realized it was my own reflection."