Ok, I'm 20 and generally started studying the art of PUA as a hobby, as I find it fascinating to find out how a woman's mind works both with their logical/emotional part of their brain; not to mention honestly it can get a bit lonely living by yourself. But at nightclubs, there's one thing that really baffles me. I prefer going to nightclubs alone, so I'm not inclined to stay with people, plus I don't really know many people who would go to the club with me and I don't have a car. However, I do know people at my general nightclub near my house and do hang out with them if we meet. Now every time I go to a nightclub, I'll go on the dance floor to have a good time, not necessarily to get lucky with women since you don't want to set your expectations too high, or you'll crash and burn miserably. And no, I don't stand out from the crowd before you say anything.

Anyways, what really baffles me is how a couple of guys can come onto the dance floor and start rubbing against 3-6 different women on the dance floor, either slowly coming up behind them, grabbing their hips/asses or forcing them to dance with them. Instead of the typical disgusted reaction women usually give, they actually enjoy it and rub back against them. In fact, some of the guys even take them home! (Though it's not exactly a frequent occurence). I'm pretty damn sure they are not PUAs, but just average guys, douchebags and muscle-heads. What makes me wonder is how do they do it? What makes women want to grind up onto them and possibly even go home with them? Could it be that they know them personally? I doubt it since it's more than a few girls. Or perhaps the guys gave them some money or bought them drinks? Could either one of the party or both parties be drunk enough to not know what they're doing? I know if me or someone I know from my University tried to do that, it would be a complete and utter failure.

Now, I've been looking into this...could it have something to do with pre-selection, women's filter-system? Could "Bitch Shields" be an important factor of this? Or positive/dominant body language or the alpha-male? Perhaps reading women's body language, eye movements and facial expressions? It's all pretty much a mystery to me

Some guys here will hate to hear this, but let's face it, it may be solely based on their looks. I mean, a short, scrawny guy rubs on her and she rolls her eyes and turns away. Then two minutes later a tall meat-head rubs on her and she smiles and nustles her ass into his groin. What's the only variable there? Looks.

But that's not taking into account other potential aspects of dancefloor/night gaming. If you just sit back and watch the beautiful people connect with each other, you'll be left out if you aren't also beautiful. You have to get out and there and express through body language that you may not be her ideal man looks-wise, but that you still have value.

Don't worry about what the other guys are doing, because you don't really know the whole story nor can you ever be them. What you need to focus on is what YOU need to do in order to be successful with the girls on the dancefloor. And to that end I would start by suggesting the skills360 dancefloor game method.

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hey dude, it is not some type of secret technique or anything, it is just doing the right things at the right time, screening, not fucking it up, sexual vibe et...a lot of little things that may seem silly but work on the majority of women... I encourage you to follow my main post and my youtube channel i cover a lot of the little things in detail... Here is my main post on club game:

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Alright, I'll definitely look into some new skills and tricks of the trade before I hit the nightclub this week. Thanks guys

Case 1: She doesnt know either of guys
Average fellow VS Good looking fellow. Which one you think she is gonna choose if she wants to have sex?

Case 2: She doesnt know the good looking guy but knows the average fellow as the funny and charming guy, who knows how to talk to ladies
Average fellow VS Good looking fellow, she will most of the time choose the average fellow.

Im not a model, but I get compliments on my looks. Still there are guys who just take my women, because they have so much social value in some group and the pressure is on the new guy. You gotta be fucking amazing to win that guy, because anything he says, his friends and girls will just laugh and agree.

I think a bit of both of the first two answers are probably true. Skills saying it's just doing the right thing at the right time is true in a lot of cases. His link there is good stuff, I recommend it.

However, I do also feel that in a club ninja's post is probably true some of the time as well. It wouldn't happen anywhere else - a lot of the 'meat head' tactics wouldn't work in the street, nor would they even work in a quieter bar. It's pretty much ONLY in clubs. Why? Girl goes to club purely to have sex, so she chooses the person with the fit body, in the same way that if we were going purely for sexual satisfaction, we'd go for the girl with the best body.

Now it doesn't always work like that - Skills' link will show that even if you haven't got a great body you can pull girls in a night club. BUT sometimes it is just that a girl wants to have sex with a lad who has a great body. Deal with it, get another girl, everyone's happy.