This is really important. Sticking to your game-plan. Screening for what you want and sticking to it.

In this are embedded all the mindsets that make you an attractive male. And also all the hard facts that come with pickup.

What a lot of newbies don't understand is that rejection is a part of the game, and that rejection is actually good. If you get hurt by rejection then you are narrow-minded, you have tunnel vision and you don't really know what you want. You are thinking on a very micro-scale.

This is why it's important to know what you want first, before going out. What is your goal? This goes for the long-term pickup, and the short-term (i.e tonight). Ask yourself, why am I doing pickup, and also what do I want tonight?

OK onto sticking to your game-plan:

In your game-plan is your intent. Your intent determines everything tonight and also over the long haul. Your intent is what you WANT. So figure it out. It could be things like:

Tonight I want to find a girl who I can fuck
Tonight I want to find a girl who I can go on a date with
Tonight I want to find a girl who I can have a conversation with
Tonight I want to find a girl I have great chemistry with

Once you know what you want make sure you stick to what you want for tonight at least. Sticking to what you want means you are sure in what you want - being sure=confidence. Once you are sure what you want go get it. This means that when you go out into the field (the club, the streets, the bar, etc.) you are looking for what you WANT. This means that if you are looking to fuck tonight, go out with that in mind. Put yourself in a sexual state and go.

What you will notice is that some girls will not be receptive, and other girls will. This is good. Rejection is built into this. You are not trying to make girls like you, you are looking for the ones who are receptive. You are SCREENING. You have made your intent clear, and now all those who want the same please line up. Some girls will, some girls won't. In fact sometimes you find a LOT of girls won't. And that's OK. At least you are sticking to your intent, you are not sucking up to anyone. You are in your own reality, and since you are not sucking up to anyone, some girls will be highly attracted to you because you are one of the only ones there who probably truly know what they want and go for it.

You see how rejection is actually a good thing here? You are speeding up the process. If you are in a room with 100 girls, and let's theoretically say 15 will fuck you, how the fuck do you know who those 15 are without approaching each one and getting rejected until you find them? They don't have a sign on their head saying "I'll fuck Tr@veler!"

Never waver in your intent. If she calls you out on it "You just wanna fuck me, don't you!" - shit test - "I actually think you're really sexy and I would totally fuck your brains out." Or something that is true to your intent. Stay CONGRUENT. Even if she doesn't like it, she will respect you more for it. Don't be afraid to lose the girl.

Your aim is not to make people like you. Your aim is to go for what you want and find it. And when you know what you want, you know what to do. Then JUST FOLLOW THE DAMN PROCESSES. DO it. That should be your only determinant for success. Am I approaching? Am I escalating? Am I screening? Am I isolating? Am I doing all the things that HAVE to be done in order to get me what I want? If not, then fix it. If that means manning up and grabbing your nuts to help em grow, then so be it. You will know what to do once you know what you want. Both in the micro and macro scale. So stop thinking in terms of "Oh no that chick didn't like me, now others won't!" But think in the sense that every rejection ACTUALLY gets you closer to what you're looking for. She just didn't pass the screening test. And stick to your game-plan. Do it.