Your Journey Will Hurt
WE CANNOT HELP BUT BE SPOILED CHILDREN.
OUR LIVES TODAY.
A long time ago people were raised in very tough conditions and circumstances. Everyone in the family had to work intensely just to survive. They had no luxuries. Life was all about hard, hard, hard work. Today all of that is gone. We are used to a life of complete ease. An effortless life where any work is a pain. An effortless life where we feel like just lying down on a couch and watching "the box" for countless hours. To an extent, it's not our fault. We were born into a modern day society where there is no a longer a need to fight for our survival and hence we don't have the drive to work hard. Modern technology has spared us work.

THE CONSEQUENCE. (A) YOU CALL THAT WORK?
The consequence of living such a life is that we don't fully understand what it means to work hard. We define hard work as walking a couple blocks to the grocery store or similar low-effort-demanding-tasks.
Even when we attempt to work hard it's often half-baked efforts. We have no idea what it means to give it all you've got.

THE CONSEQUENCE. (B) YOU CALL THAT PAIN?
We have become ten times more sensitive to pain. Back in the old days, pain was a big part of life. They didn't have medicine for your aching toothaches! "Mommy my tummy hurts!!!" "Aww... let me give it a kissey." That was it. Life was tough, rough and brutal. But people dealt with it and managed to be happy. Today the most minor pains make us feel like crying like a tiny, helpless baby. If you never had anyone tell you to be a Man... I am Now. "Be A Fuckin' MAN."

THE JOURNEY TO BEING A REAL MPUA WILL HURT.
There is no doubt that when you will be on your journey towards becoming an MPUA you will feel unpleasant experiences. Girls will reject you. Your ego may be attacked severely. Your friends may judge you. You may work very hard only to fail endless times. You may hear voices in your head begging you to play video games instead of dedicating time to PUA Training. You may doubt yourself and be plagued with confusion. Embarrassment may turn your face pink. My son, this is the journey that you must go through. It will have unpleasant bumps. That's part of life.

BUT...
With every failure, you learn something new and take another step toward success. Today everybody may laugh at your dumb mistakes. Tommorow they will bow down to you with streaming tears screaming and begging for you to teach them your ways. Tommorow you will get laid like a rock star to any desirable girl within your 100 mile radius!! Remember that no matter how many times you fall down on your face, no matter how hard you fall down, no matter how intense your anguish is... Pick Yourself Up! Learn Your Lessons! Leave the Past Behind! And Move the Fuck On!! If being the best was so easy everybody would do it!! In midst of the darkness of difficulty remember this...

"IF YOU'RE GOING THROUGH HELL KEEP GOING."

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That's profound. I appreciate your post and I agree with you. I've been through most of the pains you described, and I still expect some to come. That's part of it, if you want to get better with woman, and also become a better person in general.

So commit to yourself, and then keep going, no matter what. For your own good.
Only that way you'll build higher character.

You know its hard for me what you are saying, cause as a human being I think I have a natural tendency towards avoiding pain.

I have never learned my lesson faster than when it envolved physical pain as a consecuence.
With emotional pain I have a different approach; I dont seem to learn that fast. Almost as if I were a masochist.

Not so long ago Ive watched a tyler durden video about stopping putting your fake self in the interactions you have in your life, women, coworkers, family, etc.
In order to take hits by being the real you, and thats tough. I have used a mask for so long, that its hard for me not to when Im with strangers. Its part of my usual interaction not to show the real me, so if I take any hits it wont damage nor hurt the real me.

If you know any shortcuts towards achieving that goal please share, couse Im having a hard time putting my real self out there in the field, but Im willing to do.

1) I wanted to say that we don't look to make our journey painful. Just the opposite we want to enjoy our journey as much as possible. We want to make it a FUN ride. That way we will be encouraged to continue.
I was saying that if you are really trying with everything you've got. 100% of all your efforts to make as much progress as fast as possible. Then you will experience unpleasant parts to your journey. It's inevitable. If everything is always nice, sweet with a cherry on top, you aren't trying hard enough.

2) That's a deep insight! I believe that a big reason why it's difficult for you to express the REAL you to girls is because you're still concerned what other people think of you. A powerful way to get over that is to get blown out from sets on purpose. Then you will the integrate the attitude "I Don't Give a Shit What Others Think" into your personality. And that's a very attractive attitude to have because it shows you're not needy.

Men have always shied away from women. Its not something new.

I suppose if you keep getting blown out of sets you're going to have to develop a strong independent will to keep doing it. However, this would also be very discouraging. Most people that naturally don't care have confidence. They believe they will be liked.