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PostPosted: Sun Dec 02, 2012 7:52 pm 
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I noticed alot of girls give me mixed signals. They are kinddaaa interested but not interested enough to act on it. When I reciprocated a little interest they seem to flake or show disinterest. I know some of these girls are into me because they are giving me good signs. The problem is they are hot and cold.

How do i turn these "yellow light" mixed signal girls into green lights?

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PostPosted: Sun Dec 02, 2012 9:07 pm 
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How are u acting with these girls? Are u being to much of a nice guy? Ex:buying them dinner all the time, no challenge at all to them. I have had the same problem with girls. Ive learned that a lot of these girls "want" to like u but u are doing things to turn them off. Let me know how u are with these girls. Ur texting etc


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PostPosted: Mon Dec 03, 2012 11:42 pm 
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I noticed alot of girls give me mixed signals. They are kinddaaa interested but not interested enough to act on it. When I reciprocated a little interest they seem to flake or show disinterest. I know some of these girls are into me because they are giving me good signs. The problem is they are hot and cold.

How do i turn these "yellow light" mixed signal girls into green lights?
They are hot and cold because they have the power. Who ever is hot and cold has the power. They are gaming you. Playing around with you. It could also be because they see you as the "BF type" and want to show you they are not that easy. Either way its a bad situation, unless you want them as your GF, which is a mistake anyway. I would leave them alone for a while and if they show up again, then you can be the one thats hot and cold. Start with a clean slate. Find a new broad.


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 04, 2012 2:18 pm 
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At the end of the day, you can't do anything with someone who is cold. So if they are shit testing you, or push/pulling, that is fine as long as they go hot again. Sometimes they are unsure, or are moody, and depending on what you say or do they will respond hot or cold. You need to calibrate and try to find out what you have done wrong and what you need to do next. Eventually you need to put the pressure on them by kino'ing them or something, then if they go cold you freeze them out and punish them. If they don't start chasing you then they are probably just a cold fish and you should move on. Otherwise you'll keep wasting your time on someone who's not really interested in you.

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