Hey guys, I've written this article for a marketing magazine. Seduction is very connected to marketing and sales, so I decided to spice this boring magazine up. This stuff is all basic, but then again its just a simple article for mainly students. It hasn't been published yet so reviews will be taken into account. Thanks!

Get the girl...

10 great tips to getting the woman you want

When it comes to seduction we play the same kind of games as we do in sales and marketing. It's all about presentation and how to convince the other to "invest" in you. Here you'll read 10 easy to use field tested methods to increase your chances with the woman you desire.

1 - Grow some balls. In some point of your life you'll find yourself in a situation where you'll need to overcome your anxiety. In this case when you're meeting women and you want to talk to her. 99% of the time she will not start talking to you even if she likes you, if you're a guy that comes over for a chat in a confident way, you'll already have a large advantage over the majority of males.

2 - Confidence. Remember confidence, not arrogance. Confidence is a killer when it comes to the ladies. A confident man doesn't hesitate to talk to a woman he wants and he doesn't need to impress her, he knows. Being confident starts with your inner self, always believe in yourself and learn to love you for who you are. We don't have time for you being sorry for yourself.

3 - Humor. Don't be an entertaining clown, but making a woman laugh is an important factor. Combine your humor with a confident (maybe slightly arrogant) attitude and it'll be accepted because you're funny. Show your fun side!

4 - Clean yourself! No excuses here, always look fresh. Wash those dirty armpits, get a deodorant that works for you. Ask one of your female friends to help you find a good cologne and clothes. Match them up properly. Just accept the fact girls know these things, might as well ask them to help you out. Got no female friends? Ask an attractive employee what she likes on a guy, tell her to be honest!

5 - Don't brag. We all know how "cool" you are for having a mountain bike with racing stripes, but the truth is, no one wants to hear you brag about how cool you are. Show her that your cool by letting her find out herself. The only people you'll impress with all your "cool" stuff are the guys, unless that's what you want of course...

6 - Listen. Not for the reasons girls will tell you to, but for investment. People just love to talk about themselves. When you get her to talk about herself, shut up and let her speak, less work for you and she's basically doing all the work. If she's moaning about her problems change the topic to something positive. You'll also get to know her better, wow that's an easy one!

7 - Create an interesting life. Enjoy your life and do the things you've always wanted to do, don't let the inner voice hold you back. Want to go skydiving? Jump out of a damn plane! With a parachute though, stay safe! The thing is, if you do fun and interesting things in your life you'll have the stories to back it up. Show them you got something going for in your life.

8 - Don't put her on a pedestal. About 95% of the guys just worship a girl in the hopes to get laid, wrong! The only place you'll land in is the friend zone, good job on that one. Attraction has to come from both sides, only give her credits for something she's accomplished. And don't pity her when she's acting whiney and childish. Woman crave attention and you should only give it to her when she really deserves it, think about it.

9 - Turn the tables. Females are the selector in nature, they decide which male to mate. Be different, don't become the selectee. There's probably thousands of cute women in your area so why focus on only one, show you have options. Even if you really like one special lady, at least show her she's not your only option. It's a stupid game about who has the power of choice.

10 - Maybe the most important one that'll get you the furthest. LOVE women! Treat them with respect. Even though we're all human, men and women are nothing alike. I love how women can do the weirdest illogical things, but it's what makes it fun. There's one thing man has never understood and never will, the female mind. Save yourself time, don't think about it, just love them.

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