A bitch is one of two things. A bitch is one that submits and a bitch is a disrespectful female (I suppose her disrespect is her pyschologyical defense mechanism against having to submit). Now there are many men in our society that are bitch made, bitch made as in the have been raised to submit. They have been raise to think of submission as a susceptible option. Its okay to be dependent on others, financially and emotionally. Its okay to take disrespect. Its okay to submit because you need others. Submitting is the only way to live. Bitchmade. This is a pyschological condition that is ingrained in the subconscious. Your parent behaves this way and so you just pick up this behavior and it influences your choices without your awareness.

Why do I say this?

Because if you're going to be an alpha male, you're going to have to be the boss. However, how do you change the way you may have been raised? How do you change your character? This is the problem that most guys run into. They try to change their character to become an alphamale. This is like trying to force a square peg into a round hole.

So you shouldn't try to change your character but to adopt, use a style that utilizes your character to be an alphamale.

"A man should not strive to eliminate his complexes but to get into accord with them: they are legitimately what directs his conduct in the world." (Freud)

This would mean to use the things you feel strongly about to motivate you to do things you don't want to do. Like using allowance to motivate kids to do chorse. Or more lets say you have the habit of being approval seeking, this could be use to show you in the light of being considerate.

Its not your character, but your achievements that validate you.